I’ve been called a gentleman with a dark side. I’ve been in the community almost 6 years and have participated and hosted events throughout the state. I enjoy meeting open minded people. I figure I can break this up into a few sections for easy digestion.

Sexuality- straight, I can admire beauty in any , though there is something about a woman’s that does it for me... actually a few somethings. I am an ally for the LGBTQ+ community. I am a proponent for equal rights and love being love no matter the sources. I am a safe space for those that need it.

Relationships/Romantically- I am poly and have the most amazing partner currently. This person is not going anywhere but I’m happy to have another person in my life to share time, experiences, and emotions with. I believe in the natural evolution of a relationship. All relationships need to be up front, honest, and open.

Vanilla Life- professional job and not the typical 9-5. I do personal training on the side. The gym is a huge part of my life. Like HUGE. I compete in strongman, highland, and a variety of martial arts. I will consistently set new and updated goals To achiev. I love talking to people about lifting and apologize in advance if we chat and I word vomit about lifting. I enjoy Video games (Borderlands and FarCry 6) but also have most systems dating back to the Atari. I spend time working on my house and playing with my 4 puppies and being judged by the two cats. I’m a fan of theoretical conversations and playful arguments. I try to eat extremely healthy and avoid drinking. I enjoy cooking, especially outdoor cooking. Music is hard rock, Celtic, and a bunch of other odds and ends.

Kink - I have a vast array of skills and interests but I’ll always be learning and growing. I mostly play at home. There’s never a wait, there’s never anyone trying to butt in, sex or sex acts can be a thing, and there’s most things available. Plus food, beverages (including the wet bar), and activities to do if kink is not in the cards. It happens sometimes and I’m a not into pressuring someone into things. I tend to have thorough negotiations and encourage restrictions and communication during the scene. I encourage my partner to use safe words if needed. They are there for a reason and I want them to feel comfortable with using them. It is important to encourage this behavior. I’ve heard to many stories where the person is afraid to use the safe word as not to disappoint their partner. THIS IS NOT ACCEPTABLE! Tops/Doms should be more disappointed if the words aren’t used and not throw a tantrum when things are stopped abruptly. Sorry for the rant. No mid scene negations either. Even if something would be perfect, if it wasn’t part of the negotiations, it’s out. I’ve bottomed for about 70% of the things I top for.

If there are any questions please feel free and ask. Despite being told I can be intimidating, I think I’m pretty nice.

I’m a firm believer in actions speaking louder than words.