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Experienced US Dom
美国男S， 精通中文，经验丰富
QQ 1487921725
"As I was walking among the fires of Hell,
delighted with the enjoyments of Genius;
which to Angels look like torment and insanity.“
--- William Blake
Beijing Weekly Munch | 北京SM同好交流周会
The Beijing Weekly Munch is every Tuesday night from 7PM to late.
Write me for details
北京SM同好交流周会是每星期二晚上从7店到晚。
具体位置联系我
个人说明
我大部分时间生活在北京，但我常去东南亚和北美。
我原来是m，但是现在只喜欢当S。我特别喜欢鞭打。
我会说汉语，也会读和写中文，你可以用中文给我写信。
我不随便加或接受好友。想加我为好友，先跟我沟通。
Bio
I am a white male from the US. I spend most of my time in Beijing. I am well (over?) educated, well traveled and intellectually curious. I am very interested in cultural and linguistic diversity, epistemology, finance and political economy. So I can hold a conversation on a subject other than BDSM or have one of an analytical nature about BDSM.
I am academically inclined and tend to be unremittingly analytical and hyper-intense. But I still have a sense of humor and I will even bring that into scenes.
I have a good amount of BDSM experience. I started out as a submissive and a masochist but I have now gotten much more into the Dominant/Sadistic/Top role in SM scenes and the Dominant role in D/s relationships. For me it is about the connection, the passion, and thrill of sharing transgressive libidinal energy and, ideally, an intimacy that is bound up with that. So that means that I am open to exploring many types of scenes and roles if the interpersonal dynamic feels right/interesting.
I find that even the physical aspects of BDSM are about the psychological connection and interaction. I do not want to interact with a list of fetishes. I want to interact with individuals. If we have no intersubjective connection then there is really no point. That said, an intersubjective connection can be something that we both feel in a flash or something that develops over years of interaction or both or any of many variants in between. So there needs to be a connection but, pace Chuck Woolery, it need not be a "love connection."
What I am looking for
I am here to meet people in real life. Of course, interaction will have to start online, but my goal is to meet in person. Since I travel around a lot and have friends spread across countries and continents it might be a while before we actually meet in person.
I try to be open to new directions and possibilities in life. After all, we do not know what it is that we do not know and that means we might be missing things we could really enjoy. So, I am looking for people who share and interest in BDSM. I have a primary relationship, but I can and do play well (and openly) with others. So, while I am eager to meet play partners, I am also happy just to make new friends.
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