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Pan Male Submissive, 58,  Issaquah , Washington
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I'm an experienced service-oriented submissive cis-male with a strong need to serve. I have rejoined the BDSM community after an 18-year absence due to a vanilla relationship. I am active in the local kink community, regularly attending and volunteering at events such as play parties, munches and conferences. I am seeking a dominant woman with whom I can explore and express this part of me on an ongoing basis. I hope someday to find a long-term FLR involving D/s. In addition to a submissive and bottom, I also identify as a mod-heavy masochist, human (non-transformative) pet, primal prey and toy. I'm very open-minded regarding kinks and fetishes, generally enjoying what my dominant enjoys. I get filled up by my dominant being happy, contented and amused. That said, some of my favorite activities include bondage, impact play, CBT, orgasm control & body worship (foot, boot, ass…, massage, etc.) I also crave to be of service as a submissive. I'm a talented cook and good at cleaning and other domestic duties. I've been told I'm good at massage (especially feet). I have a few limits, nothing unusual. Let's talk! Feel free to contact me – friends are great too!!












 Submissive Male



 5' 11"

 170 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples


 Being allowed to worship your behind

 Being blindfolded

 Being allowed to worship your body

 You tying me up

 You disciplining me with a cane

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 Being crossdressed by you

 You punishing my gentials

 Local BDSM Community

 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch

 Being allowed to worship your feet

 You deciding when I'm allowed sexual pleasure

 You never allowing me to have pleasurable orgasms

 Sensation Play

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Sensory Play

 Being spanked by you

 Being allowed to see you in stockings

 You using a strap-on on me


 Board Games

 Comedy Shows

 Science Fiction

 Cooking for you



 Female Led Relationships




 Being allowed to see you in corsetry

 Being allowed to be your servant

 Being allowed to do all of the housework

 Being humiliated by you

 You putting me on a leash

 Being allowed to give you massages


 Being allowed to be obedient to you


 You treating me like your butler


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing

 You keeping my pubic hair shaved

 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you

 Wax Play


 Card Games



 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games



 Intellectual Discourse

 Libertarian Politics


 Female Sovereignty

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Classical Music



 Hair Pulling



 Web Surfing

 Curious About:


 Electrical Play


 Erotic Hypnosis

 Medical fetish play

 Mental Bondage

 Modern Primitivism


 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Alternative Medicine


 Paranormal Phenomena




 Opera Music



 Hard Limits:

 Fire Play


 Computer Expert

 Gourmet Cook

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Journal Entries:
4/12/2012 10:10:32 PM

Yet another pet peeve:  when member's zip code is nowhere near their posted location!   I try to restrict the user's list I see to people within 50 miles of me - yet I'll see folks halfway across the country show up as only 13 miles away!   When you change your location in your profile, please change your zip code (under My Account) too!

2/21/2012 3:39:05 PM

Got me a new job and will be moving to the Seattle area at end of March.  I hope to find some nice (and nasty) folks to introduce me to the scene up there and hopefully play/serve/interact with.  Feel free to message me to say hello, point me in the right direction for connecting, munches, parties, events, etc.

8/4/2011 11:09:33 AM

What is it with members whose profile text says they're not looking for 'XYZ' (some even getting downright hostile about it), yet leave 'XYZ' checked in the "actively seeking" section of their profile?   They'll say "No Men!", yet in their profile sure enough, they'll have Submissive Men under Actively Seeking... and then they'll bitch and moan about it. :(

8/3/2011 11:06:49 AM

I work some pretty unusual and tiring hours.  If I've read your email and haven't gotten back to you, it's usually because: I've forgotten to respond, I haven't gotten a chance to respond, the email didn't need a response or didn't merit one (such as with trite one-liners).  If you really want a response, have something more interesting to say than "hey, nice profile" or "wanna hook up?".

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