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Gopher

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I'm a fun loving and active guy who is looking for more than vanilla when it comes to a relationship. I've racked my brain for years and tried different things here and there, online and off, to see what's been missing from my life. I love a variety of different things once the bedroom door have been closed and want someone I can talk to and try new things with. Once were done I enjoy talking about the likes and dislikes of what we've tried. Alot of these things in my head tend to be much kinkier than I originally though and coming from a very conservative family who absolutely would not approve of what goes on in my head I tend to take things slow. I've labeled myself as a switch as I find myself taking over when others don't and don't put up with crap unless its from someone I respect. In that same manner I'm very successful in my professional vanilla life and I take on the alpha role in variety of different situations be it with a client or a co-worker as well. I love to get out and consider myself to be more active than most. I hike, play softball, go to the dog park, go for long runs, and try to live my life to the fullest. I would like to find someone that prefers to be on top but is open to letting me flip the tables when the moods are right to reverse our rolls as we see fit. I realize what I'm putting here isn't the "normal" expectation but I don't quite fancy myself a slave or as someone who is willingly able to just let go of all control, not yet at least. I'm looking for someone to compliment my unique desires and help push me to new places. I have a lot of things I'm looking to try and take from the mental realm into the physical realm. Suffice to say its time to test some additional limits and push some new boundaries. To be honest, not much is a hard limit if the person I'm with can be trusted and knows when we've reached our breaking points. Hard limits: kids, blood, cutting, piercing the skin, animals, and more I haven't discovered yet. -CJ
7/1/2013 7:34:42 PM

Clearly its been too long since I've updated this profile after having tried many new things over the past year.

 

Please note that foot worship has gone from "hate it" to "like it".  I've also removed most of the "hate it" options from there as if I've never tried something I don't think you should be allowed to "hate it".

 

Hate is also a very strong word for most things on there. I simple just may not enjoy them.