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| UPDATE: I only play in person, face to face. If you're not local do not message me!
I keep my Fetlife profile a lot more active than this one, with more pictures & writings too. Find me there - same username - if you want to be friends.
*WARNING: To all institutions and or individuals accessing this site or its or our associated sites for any reason - You DO NOT have permission to use, copy or disseminate any profile information or pictures in any form or forum at any time (past, present or future). If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of privacy and will be subject to legal action.*
I'm a Domme and subs (male or female) may apply to play with me using the application listed in my writings section.
I have HSV2. Look it up if you're attempting to sleep with me.
**My perfect man is:**
-Submissive
-Single (not in an open relationship)
-Non smoker (of any substance, even that vape nonsense)
-No kids
-Cleans
-Living in the North Dallas are (all the time, not visiting or traveling)
-Cooks
-Fit and has the healthy lifestyle that goes with it
-30-39 years old
-Enjoys going down on women
-Has a career (student and job hopping don't count)
-Clean (meaning you bathe, wash your hair and brush your teeth DAILY)
-Handy around the house = bonus points
-Willing to be monogamous even if I'm not (cuckolded)
-Bisexual
-Likes cats (can't be allergic)
If you don't get a response from me it's because you don't meet my perfect man criteria, or you're a sub who sent me a message instead of an application. I have no use for subs too stupid to read and follow simple instruction.
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The importance of "can" vs "may"
There is often confusion over the words "can" and "may" and not knowing the difference could make for a very sexually frustrated slave boy in my household.
Can
The word can is used to denote ability.
I can eat pussy.
Meaning: I have the ability to eat pussy - but does NOT imply that you are being allowed to do so.
Can he hold his breath that long?
Meaning: Is he physically able to hold his breath that long?
Can I cum?
Meaning: Am I able to cum? Well I sure hope so but while you may be able, it does NOT mean I will allow you to do so.
May
The word may is used to denote permission. If you WANT something - this is the one to use.
You may use the restroom.
Meaning: You are allowed to use the restroom.
Mistress, may I cum?
Meaning: Am I allowed permission to cum?
Mistress, may I come see You?
Meaning: Am I allowed permission to visit You?
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Why I Prefer Submissive Men Over Dominant Men
As a dominant woman I get asked this all the time so I thought I would answer it once and for all.
I love submissive men because they can be anything you desire. They love to please and they make life easier for you, not harder. They take care of things you don't have time for like a true partner should.
A lot of women say they need a dominant man to feel safe and supported but I don't think that's true. Dominant men aren't stronger or more supportive and submissive men are not weak. If you really want to feel supported you should go for a submissive man. They dedicate themselves to supporting you whenever and however you need support, not just when it's convenient.
Most importantly, there is nothing a domanint man can do that you can't tell a submissive man to do.
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Process
As I've begun taking on salves with a longer term mindset I've started creating a routine process for training and introducing slaves to my household. I've posted it here for anyone thinking about becoming one of my slaves and for helpful suggestions from other Doms.
1. Slave fills out application.
2. I review it & ask questions to clarify anything unclear and limits.
3. If I find that our interests align I set up an initial meeting.
4. The initial meeting is usually vanilla & in public, the primary purpose is to see if there is chemistry and make sure nobody is cat-fishing.
5. If all goes well I have the slave review the house rules and set up an introductory session. The slave is also told to download the Any.Do app that I use for assigning/keeping track of tasks.
6. At the first session the slave is given a tour of the house. Expectations are set.
7. An unspecified number of sessions will follow this - depending on the slave and how much training they need. We will get to know each other better during this time.
8. Once I have decided I know enough about the slave I make a decision to collar or let go of the slave.
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House Rules & General Information - complete and send to your mistress before arrival.
1. You will answer to ?slave? while in this house. Do you understand?
2. You are the slave, and as such you will be naked in the house at all times. Do you understand?
3. Any and all limit conversations will happen outside the house (Starbucks/neutral location/via text) and at that time you will be considered a person. Once you're at the house you're my slave and you get no say so in anything that happens. Do you understand?
4. You will do as you're told by your mistress without question. Do you understand?
5. When you are given a task you are to say ?yes ma?am? or ?yes mistress?. Do you understand?
6. If you have any severe allergies (like to cats) you need to tell the mistress immediately.
Do you understand?
7. Speaking of the cat, he ranks higher than slave boys in this household. Do you understand?
8. There will be NO smoking, not anywhere near me, not the day of, not the day before you see me and your clothes had better not stink. If you reek of smoke you will be sent home immediately. Do you understand?
9. Your safe word in this house is ?Mama?, because only bitches cry for their mommy. Do you understand?
10. You will be clean shaven & showered before you arrive. Do you understand?
11. You must ask permission to cum. Do you understand?
12. You will use proper English. Do you understand?
13. You know I have HSV2, you know what it is, how it is contracted and will take this into consideration when setting limits prior to entering the house. Is this clear?
14. You will never visit my place of living without permission. If you do you will be punished, removed from service, and possible charges/ restraining order if necessary. Do you understand?
15. You will kneel and crawl in my presence at all times. You may bring knee pads if the hard floors will be uncomfortable for you. Do you understand?
16. If you hear the squeaky dog toy that means you are to stop what you're doing and come find out what I want. Do you understand?
17. You will never touch, clean or bump the glass display case. Do you understand?
18. If you ever see dishes in the sink, wash them/put them in the dishwasher. Do you understand?
19. If the water bottles in my room are empty fill them up. If Gizmo's water is low, dirty or has toys in it, wash his bowl and refill it, with water from the refidgerator door. Do you understand?
20. If there are packages in my walkway or mail in my mailbox when you come up to the house, bring them in. Do you understand?
21. If you find shoes in random places put them in my closet or in the front entryway. Do you understand? |
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Application
Name:
Age:
Cell number:
Are you allergic to cats?
Do you smoke (any substance, even vape)?
What are your hard limits?
Are you interested in group playing? Serving in front of others? (Both male & female)
Do you prefer rewards or punishment?
Punishments/Rewards you would like to earn are (write a list)?
Write a list of 5 things/fetishes that turn you on the most.
Find 3 pictures online that turn you on, write what attracted you to each one.
What type of sub are you? (Service, Sissy, Sex Slave)
Is sex a part of your wish list (taking into consideration that I have HSV2)? Detail your limits here.
Do you know what HSV2 is and how it?s transmitted? (If not look it up!)
Describe your ideal play scenario with a domme.
What?s your typical schedule for playing (time frame, days of the week, how often you want to serve)?
What time do you normally go to sleep and wake up?
Are you handy/mechanically inclined at all?
How are you useful to me? (If your only use is sex your body had better look like Brad Pitt in Troy - if not then you had better find an actual way to be useful to me.)
Include two pictures of yourself with your application. Picture 1 must include a photo of your face, picture two must include your entire body. Both pictures must be taken the day of - hold up three fingers in the picture as proof it?s new.
You will email this application to me with pictures. You must message me to get my email address. |
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