MADAM'S PROTOCOLS Obedience is the goal. How a slave presents, speaks to his Madam, sits, eats, and dresses are determined by Madam's whim. The slave may always ask for clarification if needed. EQUIPMENT, TOYS, ATTIRE • The slave never, under any circumstances, touch Madam's devices used in the control, discipline, or training of Her slave without Madam's permission. Exceptions: Madam leaves the devices with the slave or they retrieve a toy for a fetish party guest. Even then the slave is not allowed to play with the toys without his Madam's permission. The slave is required to move, store, clean, maintain, and service any toys left with him. The toys may be inspected to determine if they are properly stored and cleaned at any time. Toys are not to be touched with the slave's hands unless being cleaned, made of rope, or made of metal. The slave is to carry toys with his mouth when retrieving and putting them away unless it is a metal toy. • Anything, including clothing, that Madam puts on the slave is left on. It is considered to be locked on, and only removed by Madam or with Her permission. Included are items such as hats, ropes, collars, chastity devices, name tags, and writing. • A slave is to always be freshly showered and groomed before greeting his Madam. Madam may choose hairstyle, facial hair, physique, and attire style. It is the slave's responsibility to maintain his appearance. OBEDIENCE Obedience is compliance with an order, request, or submission to another's authority. It is the prompt, eager, and cheerful wanting of what his Madam wants. It is disobedient for a slave to: • Express, display, or act out anger, moodiness, or any form of disruptive emotion or behavior. Such characteristics are a violation of cheerfulness. • Display by tone, body language, or expression his disagreement with or lack of acceptance of any order. It is a violation of eagerness to do so. • Delay beginning any action with "Yes Madam/Ma'am" which follows every order. Any sign of stall or creation of extra movements is a violation of promptness. The only acceptable delay is for clarification of the order. ENTERING THE MADAM'S PRESENCE - when in high protocol After an order or task is completed, a slave presents (sitting: on knees or with legs crossed, hands on knees, eyes cast down) himself within the Madam's eyesight. The slave remains motionless until he is acknowledged. If his Madam does not see and acknowledge him because She is busy and/or moving around the room, he can: 1) Pivot to face his Madam wherever the Madam moves. 2) After a while (few minutes) move locations to where he can see Her eyes. 3) If Madam leaves his sight he may follow Madam to the new location to present until She acknowledges him. 4) If Her attention is need quickly he may say "Madam?" and wait for Her attention and acknowledgement. The slave should be sure that Madam's attention is needed quickly and it is not just because the slave does not want to wait. LEAVING THE MADAM'S PRESENCE The slave separates himself physically from his Madam only when: • The slave has been ordered to perform a task that requires the slave to separate. • The slave is attempting to anticipate Madam's needs and does not have any current orders or has not been specifically instructed to stay in Madam's presence. • After the slave completes his task he will immediately return to Madam. COMMUNICATION • "Madam/Ma'am" is the Madam's role, title, and name. A slave will always refer to Her only as "Madam/Ma'am" and "my Madam." The slave will only use the term "my Owner" if the slave has been collared and ownership has been agreed upon by all parties. • A slave says "Yes Madam/Ma'am" every time the slave: 1) Is given any order. 2) Has his speech or behavior corrected. • “No Madam/Ma'am" is used when his response is negative. • A slave refers to all Dommes as “Ma'am” or "Mistress" unless the person directs the slave to use a different name or title. • A slave says "Yes Ma’am/Mistress" only when he fully understands the explanation or order. • A slave is never to interrupt Madam when she is speaking. • A slave can always ask for clarification and understanding. BEHAVIOR • A slave does not invite mockery or criticism when he is doing as ordered. A slave always acts with dignity, and in a way that reflects positively on his Madam. • A slave is to always greet Madam (when in a BDSM friendly setting) by kissing her feet. The slave will say goodbye to Madam by thanking her for allowing him to serve and by kissing her feet. • In a bdsm friendly environment, when told to "sit" a slave sits on the floor. When a slave is told to "lie down," he/she does so on a slave pad or the floor. Furniture is not authorized for use without being specifically ordered to do so. • A slave never begins to eat until his Madam has begun AND all other Dominants. If any Dominant in the area is not eating, the slave must have an explicit order to begin eating. At a dining table in a bdsm friendly setting, a slave stands (slightly to the right and behind Madam) while awaiting orders to sit and begin. • When a slave feels the need for food or drink (other than water, the slave is to always have access to water without permission), the slave always asks his Madam's needs first, then adds, "and Your slave?" A sample behavior would include: 1) Entering Madam's presence appropriately. 2) Awaiting acknowledgment. 3) Asking "do You wish for some tea Madam/Ma'am?" 4) Then adding "and Your slave Madam/Ma'am?" 5) Responding "Yes Madam/Ma'am" • A slave walks slightly behind his Madam, basically in a "leashed" position. It is the slave's responsibility to change his pace to match Madam's stride and be able to hear anything She says. • A slave will always clean up after himself when serving in Madam's home, a public play space, or another's house. This includes: *Cleaning drink glasses used and put away. *Washing sheets and/or towels used during play, sleep, or showering. *Putting furniture moved back to its original position. *Not leaving any of slave's personal items out. *Clean and put away any toys or devices used in play. CLICKER TRAINING This training uses almost entirely positive reinforcement. It teaches your slave to learn behaviors by using no physical or verbal compulsion. • One click - come (sit on floor within touching distance of Madam) • Two clicks - all fours (slave positions to hands and knees as a table or footstool position) • Thee clicks - Customizable PUBLIC BEHAVIOR • The slave's behavior must always show respect for his Madam. • Upon arrival when dining, the slave will always pull out Madam's chair for her at a restaurant or dining room table before he seats himself. If it is a booth the slave stands until Madam sits. • If Madam stands to leave the table, at any time, the slave will also stand. The slave will then sit back down and wait for Madam to return. Upon Madam's return the slave will stand again and then sit after she has sat down. Why men should do this: This sends the signal that you recognize that that woman is worth rising for and it makes sense to stand and give the woman more room to maneuver into her seat. • The slave is to always open all doors for Madam. This includes home door (slave will use Madam's key to lock it when we leave the house), building doors, car door (when entering and leaving car), closet doors. • In a work, family, or school situation around people who are not aware of the lifestyle, or where it would clearly be inappropriate. A slave never uses language which would invite criticism or endanger the effectiveness of the slave's professional or personal life. The slave will walk just behind the Madam's shoulder. To the public eye this will look like he's walking next to her. The slave will never walk in front of Madam unless it is to open a door or speak to store staff for help. • Public conversation is limited to:

• Those that speak to him first.

• Anyone he knows in the bdsm scene or vanilla life.

• General rules of kindness and to assist his Madam. General conversation is not permitted unless permission is given to do so.

PROTECTING MADAM'S PROPERTY • Whenever anyone touches, fondles, grabs, or otherwise uses a slave without the Madam's permission, the slave is to state that the action was inappropriate and take whatever action is necessary to protect Madam's property. The slave can only be touched, fondled, grabbed or used with the consent of his Madam and in the way his Madam has directed that he be used. This does not mean the general orders given by a female Dominant friend of his Madam's will not be completely and quickly obeyed by the slave. The slave will show respect to Dominants unless an attempt is made to misuse the slave. The slave will immediately report any attempts to misuse him to his Madam or in case She is not around to a Dominant friend of his Madam. REST POSITION • The slave, when not performing a task for his Madam, may freely sit comfortably at the Madam's feet. DUTIES SLAVE MAY OR MAY NOT BE RESPONSIBLE FOR: Any household chores
Acting at a maid/butler for either Madam and/or friends
Foot worship
Pain/Bondage slave
Footrest/Table
Errand girl/boy
Alarm clock (remind Madam of various tasks)
Cleaning BDSM toys
Cooking
Massage
Phone Assistant
Chauffeur
Yard Work
Tea Service SKILLS APPRECIATED IN A SLAVE: Massage Training
Cleaning Skills
Gardening Skills
Handy man/woman Skills
Cooking Skills
Ability to Anticipate Needs
Ability to problem solve
Bartending/Drink Mixing
Sewing
Etiquette
Small Talk
Computer Skills
Ironing QUICK GUIDE TO PROTOCOLS Slave is to do the following: • Be obedient and follow all orders
• Greet Madam by kissing her feet
• Not touch BDSM toys
• Maintain one's appearance
• Answer with "yes Madam/Ma'am"
• Walk behind Madam
• Open all doors
• Pull out Madam's chair
• At a table, stand when Madam stands
• Only begin eating after Madam has started
• Not use furniture
• Clean and put away anything slave uses or personal items
• Leave Madam by thanking her and kissing her feet
• Keep journal of when you cum
• Keep track of meditations
• Not curse