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Ginkirn

Friends:
Nixa
Respect - Honor - Trust - Love

These are the foundations of any relationship, be it a Master/slave relationship, a Dom/sub relationship, a vanilla marriage, or a good friendship.

I own slaves. I have 19+ years experiences owning and training slaves. Owning slaves is not about beating them, or tying them up, or using them for sex.

Owning a slave is much like owning a pet - the Master is responsible for the slave, for her mental, emotional, and physical well-being - to take all that she is, and make her more than she was, the best she can be. The slave also has responsibilities - to obey her Master, to surrender all of herself to Him. These are deep and serious commitments for both the Master and the slave, and should never be undertaken lightly.

Being a slave is about service and surrender. It is about reveling in being owned, controlled, directed, possessed, Mastered. It is not about feeling you deserve to be treated poorly, or that you are lesser for desiring to be a slave. Being a slave is about finding fulfillment in being your Master's possession, in serving him, in being His.

I often say that I am an artist, and my medium is the human female. I own her, mind and heart, soul and body, and like a sculptor I seek the grain and flow of her deepest inner self, drawing out of her the very best of who she is. That is my goal with every slave I own. I will have from her the very best she has, and no less.

I am Master of my House, that is, the Family of my choice - and theirs. My House consists of myself, a Domme (not on this site) who I appointed to be majordomo of my House, and two slavegirls (jinxie2300 and nixa on this site) that I own, both of whom live with me 24/7/365.

I am still building my House, seeking like-minded people who understands Respect, Honor, Trust, and Love as I do. Or who are willing, as well as psychologically and emotionally able, to learn. If you cannot understand how these form the basis for all relationships, I doubt you're appropriate for my House. If you do, that's a good sign. If you think slavery is about beatings, or being tied up, or sex, there is much you have to learn. And it may be that slavery - at least as I practice it - isn't for you.

If what I've said here makes sense to you, and you're seeking a strong and stable poly household, I look forward to hearing from you.