Collarspace.com

First off, I'll say that I am not on this website to find a roll in the hay, or random sex. If Y/you are looking for that, fine, but it's not my cup of tea. I am also not looking for someone who is a doormat, footstool, or someone that thinks low of herself(E/everyone gets depressed, but I do not want a 'sad-sack') - a sense of self-worth is very sexy. Looks aren't as imporant to me as a good sense of humor, and a great personality(looks fade, but being a dickhead is permanent) I am not interested in someone that is married and is trying to hide it. If your husband knows and is okay with it, then fine, but I will not go behind another's back. I would, eventually, like to find one that is looking for a long term relationship, but that's not always the case for others, but that doesn't mean that the occasional play date isn't out of the question.

A bit about myself: I'm not new to this lifestyle, I'm not an 'old hand' either(no pun intended.) I have been practicing BDSM for 4 or 5 years actively. My interests are seen as a bit extreme by S/some, but again to E/each T/their own. Said interests mainly involve bondage, fisting(both anal and vaginal), stretching(anal and vaginal), large insertions, enema play and retention, whips and flogger play, and so on and so forth.

My personal limits are:
No underage play at all
No blood/knife/needle play
No extreme pain(A little sting is fine, but I am not out to hurt people, nor do I ever want to)
No branding, tattoo, peircing play, or otherwise permanent marks(that does not mean I won't play with someone that has these, but I will not perform it or require, under any circumstance, that they be applied)
No scat/shit play

Thank Y/you for the time. If A/anyone wants to know anything else, or anything I forgot to touch on, feel free to ask ... I'm an open book. Have a good day.