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Hello seems indadequate, but it is a much more polite greeting than...say..., "Hey, bitch, I'm going to beat your ass." Even if that announcement is true, it is not polite to say to someone the first time you meet them. Usually. So, Hello. If you can figure out the significance of my screen name here, you are probably smart enough to attract my attention. Holding it might be another matter, though. I'm not going to fill this space with the things I don't like or make silly threats about what I'll do if I don't like what you have to say. I am a mature male, 61 years old, healthy, intelligent, and of the Dominant persuasion. I am also very kinky and mildly perverted, but am a novice in things BDSM/D-s. I'd like to meet a woman of any race, religion, national origin, or geographical area who is relatively healthy, physically attractive, and very inteligent. First online (messages here, email, chat, etc) then perhaps in real life, for further exploration. You should be able to tell me about the things, chocolate and vanilla, that interest you as well as be able to listen to the things that interest me. What else? Oh, yes, I probably will wait for you to contact me first rather than send you a message immediately after viewing your profile and photos. I'm not going to chase you. Or haunt you. Or stalk you. If you think I am interesting, please jump right in there and send me a message telling me about yourself and why you are interested in me.
3/11/2012 5:22:24 AM

     Today is Sunday, the sun is rising behind me so, as I look out the window over my desk I see a sky beginning to blue and nearly pink clouds.  I think it is supposed to rain today.

     I have a huge, sharp, and well defined sense of humor.  Sometimes it turns people off because they often think I'm being cavalier about something they think is not humorous.  But, I am who I am, and will continue to crack stupid jokes.  If this is a problem for you we probably aren't a good match.

     I don't care how much you weigh.  I don't even care if you are height/weight proportionate.  I must insist, however, that you have 25 percent or less body fat.  If you're not sure how to determine your BF, you can use the calculator at http://www.calculator.net/army-body-fat-calculator.html

  If you are working on getting there, that's good, too!  {#}

     For the sake of clarity, I shall use the term BDSM in all instances where BDSM, M/s, D/s, or any other term or phrase could be used to describe a relationship rooted in Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism, Master/slave, Dominance/submission, or any other of the kinky kinds of things we like to do.

     My expericence with BDSM is spotty and spread out over many years, but includes no long term D/srelationships.  I do, however, have lots of fantasies I'd like to explore.  I have experience with light bondage, spanking, a variety of forms of punishment from corner time to corporal. 

   OK, time to start the day!  Enjoy yours and drop me a line.

 

    

    

    

3/9/2012 4:27:40 AM

     Here is my first journal entry.  I know, I know, that is obvious, but it is also an easy way to start it without first staring at a blank page for several minutes.

     If I could give this entry a title it would be Things I Don't Like.  At the top of the list is smoking.  I smoked for 40 years, finally gave it up 10 years ago and still have urges.  So, if you're a smoker, I'll correspond with you but we'll never meet.

     Another dislike of mine is the non-answer to a question.  Responses like "Whatever you want'"  or  "I don't care," etc., are not acceptable.  I ask questions to discover things, so if you cannot provide complete honest answers to my questions we probably aren't a good fit.  And yes, you are encouraged to ask questions of me and I will answer them.

     My philosophy concerning relationships, vanilla as well as BDSM related, is simple; every relationship is different from all other relationships and is dependent upon both the man and woman (sorry, boys, I'm straight), the Top and bottom, Master and slave.   If both of us don't derive pleasure from it there is no sensible reason for it to exist; is there?