I'm not very good at online play.

I guess in most aspects I just really love the physicality of kink, everything I really delight in are things that a partner can do to me or "force" me to do.

But it's really hard for a Dom/Daddy and I to make time to meet, play, sometimes even talk. And being in Japan I'm restricted to a small community and the even smaller subset (domset?) of English speakers within it, so finding someone experienced, unattached, interested, and able to fall to a mutual time schedule is hard.

So I would like to try more online play but I'm just not sure how...

I think if I did Online Play I would like more rules with it? Like to establish before I even hand over my KIK what the game is.

Do I dice roll every morning to determine what task I do that day?
Will my Dom give me a scenario and depending on how I respond will dictate if I get a prize or a punishment?
When I am good can I earn points to win something?
When I am bad will those points actually be taken away?

It's easier for me to have focus on play when I know my boundaries within it and what I am trying to achieve. When it's IRL play my prize is seeing my Daddy/Dom happy, being told that I've been a good girl, the feeling of pleasure at taking pain, knowing I've been good and sweet and helpful and getting a cuddle at the end is my goal.

Since online I don't get those things I need more set goals I guess... Something to earn and something that can be taken away. Punishments that I know will happen and thus can in my own ways avoid without having to go full stop on the breaks and straight up ignore a pushy Daddy who's being mean.

What does everyone think?