Hey there!
I'm a seriously partnered, transfeminist (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transfeminism) cis-gendered female with a passion for the unusual. ;) I own and keep a wonderful collared gender-neutral pup, with whom I do most of my kinky exploration.
My partner's (pup's) pronouns are "they/them/their". This is non-negotiable.
At the moment I'm mostly looking for friends and good conversation, but I'm also interested in finding a submissive male who would be willing to let me (and maybe a friend) torture and imprison his cock on a semi-casual basis. I want to explore my sadistic side.
I'm turned on by discrete public play, torturing nipples, tribbing while wearing tight clothing, playing dress up, and romping with primals. I don't identify with a particular animal (yet), but I love interacting with partners who have an other-than-human persona. I'm obsessed with collecting vintage lingerie, which I occasionally sell, and crafting toys and accessories for satisfying my partner's kinky cravings. I also fully intend to learn more about leather and rope working, and I'm teaching myself both crafts slowly but surely.
In the near future I plan on compliling a strict training regimen for my pup, so if anyone has any creative ideas about awesome commands or training strategies, I'd love to hear from you. That said, my relationship with my pup is not a Master/slave dynamic. I'm in this for the unconditional love, playfulness, affection, and nurturing that comes with an Owner/pet relationship. I'm interested in the possibility of meeting up with other Owners and their pets for romp sessions and playdates, and have intertained the idea of mating my pup with others (my pup is strictly a penetrator), but this would certainly have to wait until multiple meetings in person confirmed our compatibility and mutual trust.
I am most comfortable forming very casual, mostly platonic friendships with little expectation for sex. I do enjoy the tension that accompanies sexually charged interactions, but for there to be any potential for further intimacy I absolutely cannot be expected or coerced to "put out". End of story. The people I desire most are those who I could just as easily do without. Want to know more? I do answer my messages. Just know up front that I'm not emotionally available for any sort of serious relationship, bdsm or no, and I have no tolerance for harassment or chauvinistic behavior. Jump through my hoops and we can be friends. ~Esti
9/4/2013 9:43:43 PM
I take it back. I'm getting swamped by messages, and despite my unwillingness to disappoint anyone, I'm going to have to stop answering most of my messages now. Send me some material for intelligent conversation, and you might get lucky. ;)
8/31/2013 10:23:58 PM
well, it seems as though creating an actual profile message has slowed down my hits. Lol
