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EssexSlutBoy

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I find myself at a point where everything, in terms of life, the universe and everything is great and approaching my mid thirties I feel quite contented and at ease with things – age does have its benefits. The first flush of youth may be behind me but the benefits of a decent career and many years of BDSM experience are now beginning to pay off.

The last few years have seen me develop many, many good and valued friends; both sub and dom, who’s company I adore and opinions I value. Moreover, I have had the honour and privilege to serve or play with many of them over the years giving me not only fun but some unforgettable experiences that will never leave me. Having served and had the honour of being collared twice before over the years and having had a period where I was much more my own sub (sans collar) I find myself at a point where the idea of finding a more substantial relationship in which to develop submission become increasing appealing again.

It’s all to easy on profiles such as these to waffle on about ones desires and wishes (not withstanding the fact that as a sub ones desires and wishes should only be those dictated by one’s Mistress) and say very little about ones self generally. So, that said I should say I'm bright, articulate and obedient, with a wicked sense of humour. Laughing is something that i rather do than anything else. Movies probably come a close second, i just love them and every thing about them and i try to got to see one at least 2 a month; thank god for the NFT!! Music runs movie close and I’m passionate about my music, nay, some would say anal!! but when you have so many CDs, OCD is a very likely result: they just have to be ordered alphabetically. Moreover, I’m also just love books (but dislike libraries) I'm afraid i just have to own them: is there any thing more precious then a new book?

I also love to cook, being one of those people that finds cooking a meal pleasure and after\ a days work there’s nothing I find more relaxing (except say a torrid session of humiliation and cbt) than cooking a meal from scratch; I don’t own a microwave and seldom ever eat ready meals. A love of food and drink generally follows on from this and thus any opportunity to eat in an exciting restaurant is never to be overlooked.

My skill in the kitchen has proved it a both a pleasure and a pain, there is nothing I enjoy more\ than cooking a delicious meal for a formidable Mistress but many a time that has led to burns in the most inopportune places when collar and cuffs are all that replaces the more traditional apron! If I get to enjoy the said meal at the table that is a true honour, otherwise taking it on the floor from a bowl is greatly received.

In terms of a career, I work in the NHS and wouldn’t want to do anything else; despite everything and all it’s many faults; it still the most\ worthwhile thing I have done and something I intend to do for the foreseeable future and as much as I adore the BDSM lifestyle I’d never let it compromise my work. I’m at the stage of my career now where I’m beginning to reap the rewards despite the hassle and responsibility and the fact that my job is being increasing split between work here and the North West ( but Manchester is such a great city, I really don’t mind to much).

My profile mentions chastity and this is an area that as always intrigued me and interest increases each year since I became aware of it and has only gotten stronger since actually experiencing it for the first time a couple of years back. A previous Mistress introduced it into our play and I’m now the proud owner of A Curve chastity cage made by the same people how make the CB3000/6000 (it’s depicted in a couple of my photos for those that are intrigued). Back then it came to figure greatly in our relationship and there periods I a was kept chaste along with the burning desire for release\ only sort to heighten my sense of slavery and desire to serve unconditionally, if the prospect of prostate milking was to be the reward.

In the time since then occasion to where it properly (i.e. be locked with some else holding the key) have only presented themselves now and again but it is something that I hope will again prove to be a tangible demonstration and mark of both my submission and position as an owned slave.