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An Englishman in New York - seems I've heard the phrase somewhere before? I'm urbane; witty in a quirky ironic English way; well mannered, spoken, educated and read; reasonably well cultured (although opera is a hard limit!). I'm tallish and biggish (that's not a synonym for fat by the way). my looks don't frighten the horses - well not the short sighted ones and as long as its dark - apart from that… well… I'm pretty much anything else you might expect from an expat in a a town like this. I'm entirely conventional on the outside but dark and kinky on the inside. And, as far as kink is concerned I'm at the safer, saner consensual end of the spectrum. I've got a wicked imagination and pervertedly creative talent for improvisation. I'm not a sadist but I use a little pain to discipline and add a frisson of fear and excitement to play. I like bondage but for its practical purposes rather than its aesthetic qualities.
I'm looking for a woman who knows herself and her submission, and knows that she wants to share it, hopefully with a man like me. What is essential is a desire to serve and be made use of in a D/s relationship.
So there you have it. Pleasant perversion and afternoon tea. What could be better?