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Elm17

Hello! To start, I identify myself as a monogamous, softer D/Daddy type, looking for a lovely little girl who isn't of the doormat variety. I'm an employed professional in a corporate setting, who uses what I now realize are inherently D traits to get things done at work. Also, due to that whole professional thing, pics may be a little vague. As I saw someone write up brilliantly in their profile, I am not "someone who gets pushed around all day at work, and is looking to come home and take it out on his woman". I'm a bit of a nerd. Well, more than a bit. But I can hide it well. ;) Bonus points if you wouldn't mind curling up in my lap for a bit of Doctor Who, or a cheesy horror movie. Things I'm looking for: Someone to talk to at first, about anything and everything (helps if we have similar non-kinky things in common - being a nerd is a huge plus.), to hopefully build up the requisite trust to move farther. Someone I can build the above trust with. And doesn't mind if that process takes some time. Someone discreet. Who understands that as much as we might love whatever our relationship develops into, I will never want to drag you to my parent's house for thanksgiving by a leash. SSC, someone who understands, and agrees with. Things I'm definitely not looking for: Someone to dive right in with. I'm not looking for full 24/7 lifestyle. I'm not ready for it (and may never be), and, I'd wager, my ideal match isn't either. Tons of "pets" to collect, like notches on my belt. (I've said belt twice now... hmm... *shifty-eyes*) but really, I'd prefer to find one submissive, or at least submissively curious girl to connect with, and go from there, helping one another develop and grow. Absolutely not looking for a "stable" of girls. Monogamous, even in lifestyle stuff...