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	But first, a joke: Have you seen two subs try to have sex? Well one was cheesy but the other got really wet. Please, fresh tomatoes only. I am not even remotely interested in anything long distance, if you don't live in Baltimore or within 30 miles of me, don't message me. Couples: I'm not your unicorn. I REJECT ALL FRIEND REQUESTS Let's start off with the obvious. I'm a rope slut. A novice rope slut. Novice as in, I can still count the number of times I've been tied. Novice as in, I have never done a full suspension. It's a tragedy. Like Hamlet except there's no poison in the wine, and this soliloquy isn't in Iambic Pentameter. No actually the real tragedy is that I'm allergic to jute. Flax or hemp rope are preferred, although I'll work with synthetics if I must. (I would like to experience hempex actually.) Next up. I'm a sub. You see where it says sub up there next to that number that keeps going up and the F that tells you "hey, here's a girl to creep on?" Yeah, that means I'm a sub. I'm not your sub and if you act like I am, well, I'll never be your sub and a lot of people on the internet will be laughing at you. Would you like some wine? Of course there's no poison, I already said so above. Don't you trust me? My interests are varied, but I am not a heavy masochist. Don't expect to see me asking for impact play. Given that this site is not trans friendly, (um, "trans" is not a gender mi amigo) I should mention that I'm interested in men, a category which by definition includes AFAB trans men. I'm also interested in masculine-leaning enbies - but once again, no checkbox for that. Minor rant over, here's what I'm explicitly NOT looking for: Not looking for: casual hookups/NSA dick pics LDR (unless you're in Baltimore) sex (seriously, I'm like 90% asexual, we can play without sex.) submissive men of any sort but especially male-identified CD/TV fetishists someone who refuses to participate in or has been booted out of the public scene homophobes, transphobes, the three 'r's (rapists, racists, or republicans,) or other undesirable people If you're interested, message me and I'll send you my username on fet and we can go from there. Also my name is not Elle, but you are more than welcome to call me Elle. Tell me a joke in your first message so I know you read my profile. It's a cute name don'tcha think?

9/10/2016 7:03:39 PM

Ugh this site offends so many of my sensibilities. Besides being stuck in the 1800s with regards to gender, ethnicity should not be a mandatory category with limited options.

8/20/2016 11:31:19 AM

I wrote a crappy little play for y'all, starring myself as the Mary Sue. (fanfiction.net, here I come!) Ok but really, this is just for me to explain dynamics I want without having to explicitly ask because i feel awkward explicitly asking for some of this.

Adventures of a Mary Sue - Pt. 1

CAST (in order of appearance)

ELLE An easily distractible and charming young woman, undeniably a hipster. A Manic Pixie Dream Girl and Mary Sue all rolled into one.
SIR MCDOM Her dom. Tall, dark haired, bearded, smells nice, probably has a name he prefers to be called but we won't hear it in this story so why should I bother making one up.

PROPS

A simple harness (e.g. https://www.etsy.com/listing/90735508/chrysolite-ha…

)
A leash
A pair of wrist cuffs that match the harness (this is my fantasy so I get to choose. hmph.)
A double-ended snap clip
Some sort of mean looking thing

SCENE I

ELLE and SIR MCDOM are walking through the vendor area at one of these kink camps in Maryland. SIR MCDOM stops to look at a rack of floggers. ELLE is focused elsewhere and does not notice.

ELLE (moving quickly, reaches the end of her leash) Aaah!

SIR MCDOM Elle! Come here!

(ELLE grumbles)

(ELLE slowly walks back to where SIR MCDOM is examining merchandise, probably of the painful variety.)

ELLE Sirrrr... I wanted to look at the violet wand.

SIR MCDOM We'll look at everything, be patient. (beat) I don't want you wandering off right now, understand?

ELLE (distractedly) Yes Sir...

SIR MCDOM (picking up a toy) Elle, look at this! It's... (ad-lib)

(SIR MCDOM continues ad-libbing about details of the toy and its use until SIR MCDOM is interrupted by a sharp jerk of the leash as ELLE, bored or distracted, has wandered off to try to look at another booth.)

SIR MCDOM (sharply tugs leash back) ELLE!

(ELLE makes noises of discontent as she is reeled back in.)

SIR MCDOM (Sternly) Stand here.

(With one hand SIR MCDOM grabs the back strap of ELLE's harness, and with the other he fishes a double ended snap hook out from his pockets.)

SIR MCDOM Wrists. Now.

(ELLE places her hands behind her back, and SIR MCDOM uses the snap hook to secure the cuffs together before spinning her around to face him.)

SIR MCDOM Elle, I asked you to be patient and gave you a chance to be good, and instead you kept wandering off when I was trying to talk to you. (beat) We'll see everything you want to see before we leave here. But first there are some things I want to show you and I don't want you wandering away halfway through. Do you understand?

ELLE (nods) Yes Sir.

SIR MCDOM And since you can't be trusted to stay on a leash without walking away, I'm going to keep a hand on your harness now so you don't have a choice but to stay by my side.

ELLE (stammers) Y-Yes Sir.

SIR MCDOM Tell me what we're going to do.

ELLE (Pauses to regain her composure) Sirrr, we are going to look at everything you want to look at and everything I want to look at and I am going to stay by your side the entire time because you will be holding on to my harness. (beat) Can I have my hands back now, please Sir?

(ELLE looks up expectantly.)

SIR MCDOM Good girl. No. You can't. Now as I was saying... (ad-lib)

LIGHTS FADE

END SCENE I

8/15/2016 3:31:47 PM

Dear fuckboys,

I've read "The Game" too. Try to neg me and I'll have you calling me Mistress as you give me all your money.

Go fuck yourselves,
Elle

8/13/2016 2:38:14 PM

Ok, here's a tip for talking to submissive women that should be completely obvious but apparently you fucks don't get it:

I am not your pet, slave, sub, hole to fuck, or anything else. If you call me any one of those things before we have negotiated and mutually agreed on that dynamic, you're a worthless little fuckboy and I want nothing to do with you. Understand?

8/13/2016 1:31:35 PM

Want to know the sort of dom I'm looking for?

Read this:

1. He declines being called Sir, Master or any other grandiose title from the start. Until a relationship has been agreed upon he knows he’s a human being just like you, on the same level as you. He will owe you that respect and courtesy from the beginning. He declines being called ego-inflating names unless a dynamic has been explicitly agreed by both parties.

2. He looks after your interests. He will be on your side and will want you to be fulfilled in a relationship. He will be prepared to walk away from a relationship, if he believes your needs will be better met by somebody else. In fact he will be more than happy to introduce you to somebody else who will meet your needs better than him, even if that means he will lose you.

3. He doesn’t criticize other people, particularly other doms, behind their backs. He doesn’t feel threatened by other doms and doesn’t see them as competition. He doesn’t belittle or talk bad about other doms or tries to eliminate or undermine “competitors”.

4. He doesn’t try to dominate the conversation or gratuitously lead a group onto something just to prove to everyone and himself how domly he is. He will let other people have their say, without trying to hoard the limelight. He is a true team player who puts the needs and interests of the group before himself. He is interested in the team winning, not him winning.

5. He doesn’t prey on the vulnerable. He doesn’t hang around the entrance of munches or clubs looking for “fresh meat”. He doesn’t try to take advantage of inexperienced submissives and use their lack of knowledge to his advantage. On the contrary, he will protect those new and vulnerable and do what he can to guide them in the right direction.

6. He doesn’t instigate politics, bitching and division between camps. He is not prepared to partake in them and will try to minimize conflict whenever possible. He has a conciliatory tone and tries to build bridges, not burn them, whilst still defending what is right.

7. He’s approachable. He’s friendly and welcoming and accepts everybody as they are. He keeps his ego in check and doesn’t carry himself with a swagger or in a threatening or arrogant manner. He’s not in possession of the truth. He knows an überdom is quite the opposite of a true Dom.

8. He admits to his mistakes. He’s happy to say sorry. He knows that being a Dom doesn’t mean he’s perfect. He will own up to his errors and will make reparation whenever possible. If he makes a mistake during play he’ll apologize sincerely and make sure it doesn’t happen again.

9. He’s comfortable with a sub who is more intelligent, skilled and capable than him. He knows that being a Dom doesn’t mean he has to be the best at everything. He’s quite happy to take instruction from his submissive and let her teach him what he doesn’t know. As an example, he’s happy to take directions from her when he’s driving.

10. He has nothing to prove. He’s comfortable in his own skin and doesn’t need to prove to anybody how “dominant” he is. He doesn’t try to live up to some expectation of what a Dom should be. He’s confident and sure of himself and is untroubled by others disagreeing with him and having a different approach to dominance than his. He knows who he is and he doesn’t need to justify himself to anybody.

11. He doesn’t take liberties. He will not boss around a person just because she’s submissive. Nor will he grope her either. He will be clear, transparent and specific about how he wants to play, before anything happens. He will not take advantage of someone being in subspace and therefore more vulnerable. He is polite to waiters, clerks and those in serving professions.

12. He’s trustworthy. He has a strong sense of integrity, responsibility and compassion. He will stick to his agreements and fulfil his end of the bargain. He will tell the truth and behave with honesty, even if that means he loses out. He’s honorable and his word is his bond.

(source: Fetlife/DominantMan78

)

8/11/2016 11:25:22 AM

It's funny how many fake doms are on this site. (Actually it's not funny, it's pathetic and sad but anywhoo...) I get so many messages from weak-willed little men who think that being a dominant is about exerting force and demanding respect from an unwilling victim, rather than showing respect and receiving willing submission in return.

All y'all who message me, take note. You rape-y motherfuckers don't get to touch me.

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SlaveNicole2

Age: 35

London, United Kingdom

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SCENE I