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| Hello..If you are going to read this whole profile, you might want to fix yourself a drink as I'm a little long winded.......Just saying....
Hello again.....
I am a happily married, successful, intelligent & self confident man who works very hard to maintain my responsibilities & obligation's in the world. I am a big guy and I live my life to the fullest... I'm driven by many passions. People that really know me would say I am compassionate with a zest for life.
My wife is definitely not into "kink". She understands my submissive side and she suggested that I should find a friend. She wants me to be happy. She is ok with me looking outside the marriage. She is open to getting to know a potential partner, Just to confirm to you, that she approves, but does not want full disclosure.
My goal is to enrich the life of a intelligent women who's spirit is dominating. I desire a connection with a woman of true power. Some one who I can submit to for her pleasures, yet she will respect, admire and value me while she pushes me to my limits....
I'm not here for any women ... I seek a women who has a righteous sole, with a great heart. Im not saying you can't be a sadist, that goes with the territory . I'm saying you will protect me & keep me safe as you punish me.... As your pet I will submit to you and you only...I realize you might want to punish me and I might even cry for you, .....yet Heaven forbid no one else can lay a hand on me. Only you will determine what is fitting for me....A true lady that I can trust with my deepest secrets.
I am seeking to establish a long term relationship, with a dominant intelligent women...based on honesty & trust. Some one that I will be able to express myself to. I am not submissive . I am just the opposite. Yet it is my sincere desire to submit to the right one. I also know that I am not perfect. I would like to devote my self to a women who understands me. I want to Invest in a vanilla relationship that will eventfully lead to a D/S relationship. I have given this a lot of thought and I would like to develop a deep pure trust in you... I want to trust in you and give myself to you in a true unselfish love.I not sure if this type of love even exist , yet, I trying to convey to you in the most sincerest way, where it is that I'm coming from..... Im a very caring and affectionate person and love to dote on you..... Yet, I must know that you will always keep me safe. I'm a very stoic man, yet I know deep down that I could and would be able to give myself over to the right women ...Yet with this trust I also know that by exposing my submissiveness to you that I would or could be hurt easily..Please read my writings on this...
I eventually would like to have complete trust in you and with that trust you would have won me over and my soul, and body would be owned by you... Yes this consept is a little a deep and I'm not sure if I could every really get here, yet I hold the concept as a pure honorable goal . In essence I want to build a trust that allows two minds to melt or fuse together... Trust and honesty are two virtues that I believe in.....yet ....On the flip side, I could see how this could be emotionally damaging & destroy me if my trust was ever violated. As I said I am a Strong. Intelligent, Secure. Man who is not submissive. Yet I desire to submit to the right women. Who could develop this trust and devotion. So this would take a lot of time and growth.... I do desire true understanding from the right one....I am a very complex person with many layers. Yet it's who I am... In the world I'm always the haven for others. yet where does the haven go when the haven needs a haven? I think this is one of the many reason I love to submit....Ok....moving on ...I love a strong mind in a women....Now that is nice and refreshing....
On a personal level , for me, to truly submit myself , to a women of power.....Then relinquish all control, and trust that individual, with both my physical and mental well being is the highest complement I can offer you.
Ok... let me expound just a little on my vanilla world....I am passionate about music from rock, country, opera & classical... Music sets the mood for life... I love fine dinning among other things. A glass of red wine with dinner is delightful. A ice cold beer on a Saturday night is perfect.....or any night now that we have mention it... Lol... Smiles....You might say I am a closet romantic . Sometimes, I get too sentimental for my own good...lol...ok......I love a good debate and enjoy good Intellectual discourse.... I have done a fair share of traveling on this earth and allways enjoy a good clever conversation.
I realize this is not just about me... I did elaborate a lot as I wanted to give you some insight about who I am..... What can I offer to a Dominant? I would think that would be a good question....I am willing, to the right one, to make uour life as comfortable as humanely possible. I m sure, I can facilitate this goal in many ways, depending on the situation. My core value would always want you to be happy and content....
On a side note: I am pretty handy around the house and garage and can fix just about anything.
If you would like to know more, send me a message...I would enjoy corresponding with you..... I'm in no hurry, as all the important thing in life take time, hard work & dedication to achieve...
Thank You
East Side Sub
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