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| Looking for a D/s situation, more on the serious side rather than casual play.
I am submissive, and I consider myself as such because I do have limits that I extend at the beginning of a D/s relationship. None of my limits are arbitrarily set based on a lack of openmindedness or exposure; I've had plenty of time in the lifestyle to explore, and my limits are based on actual experiences that I've had that, for one reason or another, I did not find to be positive, fulfilling or beneficial to myself or those around me.
Beyond that, I'm mostly interested in control, structure, etc (you've heard this part before, I'm sure). Although I like aspects of a D/s relationship to extend beyond the bedroom, I should also note that I have a career (not a "job"), and that I have a busy life. This is not to say that I'm looking to CM in the pursuit of "sex for convenience", but I point it out because the rest of my life doesn't allow me to live the lifestyle full time (and that's how I like it.)
In terms of a partner, I'm relatively openminded, as long as the chemistry's right. (However, I am looking for a dominant male, so if you don't meet that, there's likely not going to be any chemistry.) And, while I'm not looking for a "Daddy" per se, I'm certainly not looking for some hardcore 24/7 "Master" either. I find nurturing and empathetic individuals in general are a better match for me.
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