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I dunno about collarme's list; here's my own summary:
- I am married. She would be only be involved to the extent that she would know what's happening
- I'm no alpha male, nor do I enjoy sadism for my own pleasure. For me to enjoy, it's gotta work for you
- Age, race, body shape matter little to me
- Openmindedness and consideration do matter to me. I'm not looking to have a knockdown battle to prove my dominance. On the other hand, some spirited sassiness definitely adds some spice.
And, some non-BDSM particulars:
- professionally employed
- caring, nurturing
- intelligent
- passionate about those things that interest me, quite blase about a lot of other things
- patient, firm, even tempered. A steady hand to guide the ship.
If you're in the GVRD and looking for a connection, one that is not and is not going to be 24/7, but, hopefully could be ongoing, send Me a little note.
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Summer always brings up thoughts of Wreck Beach. Those of you who are local know the place to which I refer. I'm no regular, but I do try to get out there every year.
The freedom is great; it's too bad you can't stay out there past sunset any longer. And, as much as my legs appreciate the steps, I think I enjoyed the climb more before the steps were put in.
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8/24
Updated the account to reflect new circumstances.
On-line can be good, but it can also be very limiting and frustrating. What I need is more, and in real life.
So, after discussing it with my wife, I'm now looking locally, for someone doesn't need someone 24/7 right now at least. Maybe someone who wants that eventually but also has needs that need to be met in the here and now.
My wife is a bottom but not a sub. She says if anything she has Domme interests. Maybe we'll get lucky and find someone who eventually would be willing to submit to both of us?
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Well, a recent chat with an old online sub friend led me back here again. She had success finding somone here, but being female and a sub, she had a much better chance, I think. -- During the last two months I had a new connection with a relatively inexperienced sub, but our interaction and her own research made her confident enough to start seeking in r/l, and we all know that online pales in comparison with r/l. - - Even as I wished her the all the best I was sorry to see her off for selfish reasons. Somewhere I still think there is a female sub in a similar situation to mine with whom I can make a more long term connection.
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- - Doing a quick read through some of the profiles and their journals is quite interesting. So many of the ones that listed themselves for Me first write complaining of "false Doms" and men not reading the profiles. - - My guess would be that there probably is a pretty high male to female ratio here, and that being the case, there are likely lot of guys who have read something on the web, or saw something in a porno clip they downloaded and think that they'd like to try some of that. - - And others like the "shotgun" approach; if they meet 60% of the requirements, then they "pass" and the more replies they send, the better their chances of finding someone that will respond to them. - - All of this confirms what my friend told Me; she listed her ad and then took it down after a couple of days because she was getting too many replies. - - This tells Me too, that it will take a little longer for Me to find someone here than it took her. Ah well, somethings are just worth the time and effort!
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