Hello to all women who truly believe in Domestic Discipline -- for BOTH partners!

I have been into spanking my whole life, both as a spanker and a spankee. What I have never had is a spanker/spankee relationship with one woman. And that is what I seek -- a long-term live-in relationship (possible marriage) with a woman who believes in corporal punishment for both of us.

I am single, financially comfortable but not rich, attractive but not GQ, sense of humor but not hysterically funny, smart but not brilliant, educated (master's) but not all the way (doctorate). I own my own home and also am relocatable.

I am almost height/weight proportionate, drug & disease free, non-smoker, light drinker, dark hair & eyes, great lecturing voice, experienced on both ends of the hand, hairbrush, paddle, belt, strap, switch and cane.

I love to travel, cuddle, read, watch movies, have long talks and go on longer walks. My picture (assuming they approve it) is from far away because of my job. That's a piece of the Berlin wall we're pretending to climb.

I don't like shouting, the silent treatment or days of feeling at odds with a partner. That's why I like spanking: You misbehave, you take your medicine, it's over.

I believe spanking has many positive uses:

· For correcting behavior.
· To assuage guilt.
· As foreplay.
· To release sadness.
· To express anger.
· To proffer the gift of control to a loved one.
· To warm the pubic region.
· To release stress.
· To help another release stress as a "whipping boy or girl.”

I seek a partner who believes similarly. I would guess (but do not require) that she be between 35-55 years of age. I hope she is within 20 percent of those cursed weight charts. I expect that she is a true switch with spanking experience both ways, and a true believer in the value of Domestic Discipline.

And yes, I spelled it wrong in my profile name on purpose so it would fit!

I'll add more to my journal. Please check. I won't change the profile because when you do so on collarme, it sometimes goes dead.