What is it you seek? The answer to that simple question is far more complex than one would care to admit. We all seek something in some form or fashion. The real question is, what am I willing to accept from my partner? Some would believe the choice of the word partner is incorrect yet the truth is, it is the perfect discription. How can one recieve if there is no one to give?
I read many profiles and find few to express what the desire is. Submissives/slaves demanding in what they see as requests. On the opposite polar is the individual requesting some of the most unbelievable things. What happened to discovering one another? Have we all gotten so wrapped up in our desire for kinky gradification that we fall short of what is real and what is just a fleeting emotion?

Dig deep within your soul pushing aside the thorns and vines that hide the darkest center of your core. Can you see it? The memories and well guarded desires. They hide there fearful of being found by another yet yearning to be caressed by the whisper of the one that will expose them to the light and to you. Unadorned with frills and false images. The raw and untouched truth that is your soul. Slowly open that little entry and explore all the wonders that make you what you are. Eventually you will realize that fear that kept you hiding from even yourself was smoking mirrors and words of others telling you not to let go. Soar in the glory of the purist truths and you may be surprised you were safe all along.