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�I'll get the basics out of the way here.
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I'm single, available, employed, home owner, not transportationally challenged, optimistic, educated, funny, caring, sensitive and loving.
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I believe every day above ground is a gift and we should enjoy that gift with every fiber of our being.
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�I'm not; A "sensual" bdsm guy. I'm more the, "make you squirm, sweat, beg, scream, push you to your limits and physically exhaust your ass in every type of way"... type of guy. Often times when we're done with a scene and a good hard fuck, you'll feel it for days. I'm not talking permanent marks, bloodshed, disfigurement or anything, just good hard creative and challenging, "oh my fucking god that was amazing, you're so fucked up." type bdsm.
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�That doesn't mean I'm not sensual at all either. I like to mix plenty of sensuality in to my dynamic but the scope of my inner mechanics includes sensuality but carries beyond that as well.� Soft affectionate aftercare is just as meaningful to me as the unfolding of a challenging and memorable bdsm scene. So while I don't identify with soft sensual dominance, it's certainly a part of who I am and well intermixed into my usual dynamic.� I just don't want any potential sub to think that is primarily how I identify and view bdsm. If you are strictly looking for a sensual dom or sensual sadist than I am not the� man for you. If you like soft and sensual but also enjoy being pushed and pulled to the edge, walking the line in that murky darkness, moving aside the cobwebs and exploring what lies in the dark recesses of your perverted mind and being plunged in to vibrance of subspace than we just might have something to talk about.
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�Just so there is no misunderstanding. www.insex.com and www.hardtied.com are good places to go to see what sort of imagery the term bdsm conjures up in my mind. If you are repulsed by what you find there, I am not the Dom for you. If you are a bit fearful but at least secretly intrigued at the same time, we're probably compatible in this milieu. If you are inspired� and insanely jealous of the girls and the activities depicted on those sites, we are already kindred spirits.� Every bit of what you see there doesn't have to be something which excites you. Not all of it excites me either.� It's the overall theme of being� willing to try take the things we enjoy to the limit and enjoying incorporating some of these elements in to our dynamic.
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�It also doesn't, in any way, mean I'm not loving or caring. Au contraire mon cherie. I love and care deeply and passionately. The connection part of this bdsm dynamic is so much deeper than how hard or deeply we fuck. It's like a spiritual "coming together". I cuddle like a fucking rock star. I let my sub know how beautiful she is every day. My partner will always know she belongs to me in every way and she can depend on me to be there for her when the storms hit, as they inevitably will. I'm also funny. I have a great sense of humor and I WILL make you laugh, frequently.
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�I want a woman first and foremost who knows this is what she wants, this D/s type of relationship. You have to know it's in your core. You have to love it. Enthusiastically! It has to burn at you from the inside and it has to make your heart sing to find it and your life has to feel like something is missing without it. It's not what you play at, it's who you are.
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�You also have to get along in the vanilla world. I have a rich vanilla life and intend to continue with a rich vanilla life. We live in a vanilla world and I want to be able to share that richness with my submissive partner. I am social and� like to get out an do things in social settings with my partner. That doesn't mean I am a party animal and I have to be out partying every weekend and I insist you be at my side. It means I enjoy friendships and social activities and I want to include you in them. You should enjoy occasional activities like small get togethers, going to movies, concerts, theater, dinner out, maybe seeing an educational or inspirational speaker, a trip to the beach or drive in. If you are more of an introvert, that's ok. I don't insist you be at my side all of the time but at least some of the time I'm going to want you by my side. I enjoy my alone time too, so I completely understand the value of just being a homebody as well. I get it, but not to the exclusion of any social activities.
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�Things I love:
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��� Looking over at my sub quietly curled up on the couch, knees tucked under her, slightly askew while she reads a book.
��� Coming up behind her and kissing her neck and giving her a nice hug and squeeze while I interrupt her cooking.
��� Saying, HEY! Come over here, and watching her scuttle over to me with that look in her eyes.
��� Food shopping together (told you I was fucked up)
��� Watching you shower and having idle chit chat while you do.
��� I like always knowing that at my word you will drop whatever it is you are doing and come over to me with that inner submissive desire to please the man who holds your heart.
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If any if this sounds appealing to you, reach out and say hi.
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I'll be glad to share a pic with you once we have established a rapport.
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You want to know more about me..... Hmm. What exactly, one wonders?
How about this?
I love strawberries dipped in chocolate.... (hm. I'm thinking that's not what you meant ;)
About me:
I'm a linear thinker. I try not to let my passions overtake my brain. Occasionally that is mistaken for crass or manipulative.
I'm actually very sensitive. I can't help but well up at funerals or weddings or even silly facebook videos where the father shares a dance with his wheelchair bound daughter at the school dance contest.
I don't drink, smoke or use drugs.
I say that scratch tickets are a tax on the math impaired.
I believe in God.
I dream big.
I have an unswerving belief in myself.
I have a tower of iron will. (oft mistaken for stubbornness)
I like the guy who stares me back in the mirror each morning.
Sometimes It takes a 2x4 to the head for me to learn life's lessons.
When I enter the home of a dog owner for the first time I always greet the pets first. I make eye contact with the owner and smile and say hello. I then kneel down and greet the animals and give them all kinds of love and respect. They live there too.
I love a good hard rain and especially a thunderstorm.
For that matter, I love a good snowstorm.
When someone is upset with me, I try to see why. I try to put myself in their shoes for a moment.
I'm a talker it outer and not a yeller it outer.
I'm not liking all of these sentences starting with "I"
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