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TheInstrument
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theolive
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LOCAL PEOPLE ONLY, THANKS.
I am intelligent, independent, and creative. I am interested in interacting with all sorts of unique people for all sorts of lewd purposes. Listed as a sub though I'm a switch because I have no interest in being dominant most of the time.
Trust and respect are enormously important elements for me in any form of human interaction. I highly value honesty and open communication, and am completely open and honest about myself, my thoughts and my emotions. I love subbing. I'm good at talking about things. I'm good at setting boundaries. I need you to be good at asking the right questions and listening when I answer.
I like people who are soft, caring and attentive and offer the same in turn.
I am searching for dominant people to meet and experiment with. I am not looking for any sort of romantic involvement.
Interested? Send me a message.
***If you're cheating on someone, go to hell and stay the hell away from me***
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Words that make my heart leap: bisexual, queer, trans, genderqueer, nonbinary, intersectional feminism, qtpoc, queer disabled poc, vegan, survivor. |
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Urrrgh. So after a few messages received in the last couple of days to the extent of "Please Mistress, let me serve you, I'll do this and that and please punish me and humiliate me" etc. - I have a few things to say:
1. I am not a mistress, I am not a goddess, I am probably not any form of title you wish to bestow on me. I am a person, as are you.
2. I am most certainly not your mistress. Don't call me anything, please, other than maybe Dem >.<
3. When you write out an entire fantasy and then tell me you want to do what I want you to do, you are lying. What you want me to do is pretend that I'm forcing you to do what you want me to do. You're projecting your fantasies on me and asking me to fulfill them for you. And that's pretty bad, really. What it's called is "objectification".
4. I'm not likely to want to dom anyone. I'm looking for doms, not subs.
5. I'm even less inclined to do so if you're a heterosexual cisgender male. If you don't know what that means, you're probably it. But you can look it up, too, and see for yourself.
6. All that doesn't mean that I won't talk to you if you're one gender or another. You can be the most cisgender and straight of all males and still be cool and shiny. What you have to be is intelligent, unique, and have a personality. Having broad interests helps. Being geek helps. Being poly helps, as do many other things. What you have to want is to talk to me, rather than objectify me and subject me to your fantasies without asking me or even knowing me.
7. Reading my profile, ffs, helps -_-
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I might be found these days browsing profiles of lovely cis women and trans people from the UK, in search of someone who might want to play with my (very wonderful) sub.
So, if you're in the UK and I've looked at your profile, you might want to take a look into the profile of egelante, who's on my friends list above, and then talk to me if you're interested in him.
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I notice that recently, the only kind of people who've been messaging me are the kind that don't read profiles. This means that the ones who do take the trouble to read have been deterred by my ownership. So, allow me to clarify:
Yes, I am owner and owned. This means that I will not own anyone else, nor will anyone else get to own me.
But, I am polyamorous, and am always open for conversation and play, preferably to locals. Do feel free to talk to me :)
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Owned by and owner of the wonderful egelante >.< OMG :D <3
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There seems to be an insane amount of wonderful people on this website. Joy ^_^
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Regarding 'seriousness':
It seems that I am often asked here whether or not I am serious about my BDSM-related pursuits. To my best of understanding, when using the term 'serious', people have been meaning motivation and commitment.
The answer to this seems clear to me, and thus the question confounds me. Hadn't I been motivated and committed to this search, I would not have been here.
It is then that I find that some people value a commitment to 'the lifestyle' better than commitment to oneself and one's own pursuits of various forms of enjoyment and self exploration.
My own search focuses on the latter: I seek enjoyable ways of interacting with people. Recent thoughts and experiences have led me to believe that a d/s interaction would be enjoyable for me. I believe that learning of this and exploring this would lead me to a greater understanding of myself, and would add additional potential to my interaction - and therefore closeness and intimacy - with other people.
To this, I am wholly committed and motivated.
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Some thoughts following recent experiments:
* Little to nothing can turn me on as can eloquence in use of words and language. A richness of words seems to outline a richness of thought, imagination and control. I find this wholly sexy :)
* I seem to be enjoying my sub side more than I'd expected. I like this and am curious to find how much further I can get.
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