We interrupt this broadcast for a special announcement....
I am not here to help a wannabe Dom or sub/slave get his rocks off.

If you are listed as a male Dom or sub/slave on here and have no clue what either is, then how do you know that is what you are? If you have a kink listed in one of the areas of interest then have a clue what it is. If your not willing to say hey I am new and don't know alot or if you're actually not into bdsm or other kinks then don’t send me a message. If you are willing to sign up on this site then you can take the time to do some basic research. Its not like its hard to find websites. And yes I do not mind giving a person a few websites to help just be honest.

Or of course you have the guy who thinks because it is his kink that it has to be yours if he contacts you. Or asks a question and ignores your answer and believes that you are going to do as he says. Well those males need to buy a clue and realize that I am not going to drop to my knees and kiss your ass since, you may be a Dom but you are NOT my Dom and i may be a bitch but i am NOT your bitch.

Ok now back to our regularly scheduled program.....

If you are into any acts that involve a living being that can not legally, intellectually or morally consent, MOVE THE HELL ON. I am NOT interested.

For Male subs who don't understand that not all women are Tops/Dommes/Mistress etc
What part is not clear for some of the male subs that frequent cm? A profile says the female is a slave or a sub.... why would you send her a message calling her Mistress or Ma'am? to me this is a total sign of disrespect since i am a slave not a Domme or Top or Mistress or a female looking to have any control over a male. If you bother sending me a message then use the brain on top of your neck and read the damn profile. As long as you are a male sub, the only thing that can be offered to you is a possible friendship. My Master is not interested in men in any sexual or kink related way and I have no interest in controlling a male. so if that is a problem then don't bother sending me a message.

Now after reading this, you wish to send me a message.... please use common courtesy and respect since we are equals as slaves/subs.

Also you are more likely to get a response from me if you type something as simple as "Hello, saw your profile and it caught my interest. I am into (fill in blank) as well. Would you care to chat? instead of "want to spank me" or sending me a picture of your dick. I'm 37, I think by this time I know what one looks like and unless we are going to actually have a session (which since you are a male sub is not going to happen) i have NO interest in seeing your dick and sorry to burst your bubble am not stupid and am aware that some of you send it to get ridiculed to get yourself off well sorry but you are SOL.