What you need to know about me first - I am married. I'm poly, in an open marriage. My other half knows I'm looking for a submissive. I expect the same from any man I get involved with. I don't mind married or otherwise attached men - but you can't be lying to your spouse. I will not be the other woman. I am looking for a submissive partner. I'd love something long-term. In fact, that's my ideal. Just know that my marriage is a committed one. I am not looking for a live-in partner at this time – however, we want to welcome someone into our extended family. Having said all this, I am a firm, but fair Mistress. I want a submissive who has a mind of his own who knows when to hold his tongue. I want you to be your own person, to have opinions of your own, to have input and ideas about what you want as a submissive. Doormats are not fun. Nevertheless, I expect obedience and respect. If you want to know more, or to talk, please feel free to message me. However, I have to warn you – if you haven’t read my profile, don’t respond. If you never have any intention of meeting in person, please don’t waste my time or yours. I won’t carry on a solely online relationship – or be wank material. Thanks for reading.