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Back in the saddle again. Have a partner for triples and she swings both ways, but only with women. You can find her at
aussieswitch".
AH,THE READING PROBLEM STRIKES AGAIN. THIS IS FOR WOMEN WHO WOULD ACTUALLY LIKE AN ACTUAL MAN IN THEIR ARMS AND HEART AND BED SOMETIME SOON, AS IN DAYS, WEEKS AND CERTAINLY NOT IN MILLENIEUM.
I have read many profiles where women have wished to HAVE THE MAN make a commitment to become a couple more than anything else in their lives. Not that they wished encessairly to make a commitment or had even thought about the fact that women can be way more squirrily than men.
This has made me curious to see how that will play out. Often, when 2 people (or more) get together, the psychological insecurities and sexual jealousies remind me more of a junior high school or for that matter 2nd grade, than they do a loving and complex relationship amoung adults. I am an artist/sculpture with one hand (that is one side of my brain; and a fairly high powered technology and venture capital consultant/investor with the other.
Here is what I have seen here so far. No gap between real life and what people are willing to claim they dream of and are ready for here is gigantic. One and only one person has actually made it from typing to showing up in person and being the person she said that she wished to be and having the experience of love, surrender to passion and the moment, submission and peace to the flow of the real - what in Islam might be called "surrender to the will of god" and what white folks in CA. call "surfing", and what I experience as deep mind disolving pleasure - both giving and receiving.
That after all is what this site in theory is all about. ALL THE REST OF YOU ARE STILL LOST IN SPACE, and I must assume will dwell happily there until the site runs out of electricity or the sun goes dark.
SO: I you want life in the actual real world, if you want an actual man, an actual woman, and actual couple, an actual sink, stove, refrigarator, set of steak knives, a parking place and the real chance to live some of your fantasies and dreams rather than just dream with the other fantasistics who can tell you exactly what kind of rope to use to tie them up to do exactly the perfect japanese rope trick they learned from the great Master Tai Wan Up.
If you want to step up, meet, have a cup of coffee, strip naked and kneel or simply shake my hand and meet, then fine, come on ahead. If you want a long dialogue about which way up is and how you julienne carrots according to Julia Childs, I am not the man for you.
But in the end, you either come out of this box and present yourself in full effect, or all this is merely ones and zeros signifying nothing.
You can read "jasmeen" if you can find it and you can write to me directly if you can find me. There are pleantly of clues on this site to find me in my personal profiles, "tallbrilliant" and "tallbrilliantone"
and DScoupleseeks3rd"
Do take a step, make a call, leave a number, climb over the wall naked and see what actually happens if you leave the dream and enter my actual real life
Mark
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ok, I have a long moment and will journal for a moment. writing as a letter works for me best
we - you and I that is - have had a few false starts and I wish to do this really carefully since we seem to run off the rails quickly.
i would like to come to know you.
i have no designs on you as to this or that or the other specific activity or relationship. there is something alive about you that i find intriguing
and of course, you are lovely - one hopes - and i am a guy, but let's not go there right now
i am - amoung other things - a sculptor newly moving to NY
i have been in my life a write, a poet, a man on wall street in a suit, a man on wall street suitless, a management consultant, a technologist, a polymath, a horn-dog, a lover, a friend, a decent musician, a better than decent phtographer and sometimes, just sometimes, a man well worth the time to come to know and for some, to love
this is staright, no jive, no bullshit, direct from the heart, not edited except as to spelling, since I suck at spealing, being as I am dyslexic x10
leave a numbe and we can talk, write and give me a direct email address and i will write back directly.
Warm regards
Mark
and carol
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Here now in NY/NJ area, spending some time in the City and some in upstate to catch the Fall. The Aussie switch with me - who has her own profile under "ausieswitch" is quite amazing. Alpha female with women and perfect slave with me. We will be happy to have you join us. Have found and am trying to get an artists loft which will do wonderfully - if I get it. NY real estate is such an amazing challenge. Much harder than find ing a good slave
Some quotes I like:
REALITY IS THAT WHICH, WHEN YOU STOP BELIEVING IN IT, DOESN'T GO AWAY
~PHILIP K. DICK
I'LL PLAY IT FIRST AND YOU TELL ME WHAT IT IS LATER. ~MILES DAVIS
THE WAY TO DO IS TO BE. ~LAO TZU
TO SEE THE WORLD IN A GRAIN OF SAND,
AND A HEAVEN IN A WILD FLOWER;
HOLD INFINITY IN THE PALM OF YOUR HAND,
AND ETERNITY IN AN HOUR.
~WILLIAM BLAKE, AUGURIES OF INNOCENCE 1805
WHEN YOU LEARN TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN THE CONTAINER AND THE CONTENTS,
YOU WILL HAVE ATTAINED WISDOM. ~IDRIES SHAH
MAN MAKES PLANS, GOD LAUGHS. ~THE KORAN
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I am arriving in NY no later than Sept 5th and my slave is looking for suitable living/studio space. I will also be spending time on Cape Cod working on a project there.
You intrigue me and I would be pleased to meet. For now, I have written a fair bit under the profile name "tallbrilliant" and at dot net jasmeen
Whether or not I am your cup of tea, what I wrote in my journal may touch a chord in you.
What you seek, I am, or might well be at least, one never knows and the gods do not tell before the fact. Whether that will come to anything is perhaps worth exploring together when I get there.
Mark
917 297 19~~
tallbrilliant
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