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About Me
Hi! I'm Alexis! Little, pet, slave, sub, sliiiightly switchy, I'm a lotta thingies! :D I'm looking for a Mommy or CG to call me their own. To control and own me completely. Not just a Dominant, but a partner who I enjoy being with. I've done the whole "Our relationship is ONLY D/s and we are most definitely not dating" thing and I absolutely loathed it. I need someone who shares my interests, who doesn't just make me feel submissive, but?safe.?Someone who I can honestly say that I love, and who I know loves me. Who I can share the bad days with, as well as the good; and the BDSM and little things grow organically from that. ? I'd?like?the relationship to be local, just to get to know each other; but if things get serious, I?am?looking for someone who's willing to meet in the future, and perhaps think about cohabitation, should things get that far. This means you're comfortable going to munches and events together. ? I have a lot of hobbies and interests - I like to write, (When the mood strikes me) listen to music, watch movies, and play video games. Lots and lots of video games. :P I'm currently taking a break from school to become more financially independent. When I'm able to return to school, I plan on studying to become a therapist so that I can help youth who may be questioning their gender identity or sexuality. I think it would help a lot of kids to have an openly trans therapist, so that they get a chance to see that they're?not?alone, and that there's someone who's gone through the same stuff and is willing to listen to them. ? Aside from that.... Yeah, I like lots of things; I'm queer (In that I am attracted to both cis and trans women, as well as non-binary individuals. Sorry gentlemen, I don't like boys or dick.). I'm excitable but tend to get serious when I'm gaming, I'm a deep and varied person who has absolutely no idea how to talk about herself. :P As a little, I'm into pretty stereotypical stuff. I like coloring and cartoons and cuddling with my stuffies. (I have three) I like being all giggly and excitable and sometimes I slip into little-talk when I get SUPER excited an then I get reeeeeeeeeeaaaalll little! I can be a real brat sometimes, though, so I need someone who's not afraid to give me?"The Look"?and use my full name, or grab my arm and hiss, "Little girl,?Behave!" in my ear when we're in public. ? I'm also a?regressive little,?which means that my little isn't very sexual. She's honestly more likely to giggle and go, "Eeeeeewwww" when sexual topics are brought up. ? Aside from that, I'm very,?very?much into behavior modification - Conditioning, hypnosis, etc. There's just something inherently.... Well,?hot,?about giving up that kind of control. ? I also like collars, pet play, humiliation, 24/7 Total Power Exchange, Internalized Slavery, light impact play, and rules-light dynamics, just to name a few. ? I know that sounds a bit odd, wanting a D/s relationship without many rules, but I've always had serious issues with being told when I'm allowed to masturbate, or having gigantic lists of rules for little reason. My ideal dynamic would be more on the CG/l side than the D/s or M/s side, with hypnosis and conditioning thrown in. ? BUT?(yes, there's a big but) just because I want a rules-light dynamic does NOT mean I don't want any rules, and I'd be perfectly happy to discuss adding them in gradually. ?
About You! (Hopefully)
So, as I said, I'm looking for someone who doesn't just want a little, but a long-term partner. I wanna be your girlfriend, not just your little/pet/slave/what-have-you. As stated above, I'm not attracted to masculine-of-centre people, so women and genderqueer/genderfluid/agender/other non-binary identities?only,please. Age doesn't matter to me, but I'd?strongly?prefer someone who's at least a couple of years older than me. And most definitely 18+. ? If you're married, I'm afraid I'm not really interested. If you're married and your spouse doesn't know, I'm?DEFINITELY?not interested. But if you're a married couple who is looking for somebody?together?then please let me know! I would love to be owned by a couple. (But not one person who's already married.) ? Aside from that.... I'm just looking for someone who has that deep, burning need for control. To take control away from somebody and mold them into whatyou?want. Someone who doesn't just want D/s to happen in the bedroom, but outside of it, all the time; who loves structure and imposing that on others. ? And if ANY part of this very long-winded message caught your attention, please feel free to message me. I'd love to talk and see if we're compatible ;) ?
Note - Because I am a trans woman, my preferred pronouns are she, her, hers, etc. Female pronouns. I won't tolerate anybody using anything else, even coming from a dominant or in jest. The same goes for words like, "Tranny," "Shemale," "Futa," Etc. Byeee~~~~ :* :3 :D
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