Does it actually happen? So many women on here are looking for "life partners, spiritual connections, knights in shining armor, and future husbands."

In my opinion, *i refuse to write IMO*, you should really go to Match.com or e-harmony, and then just reveal that you're submissive and into bdsm. You probably have a much better chance at achieving your goals that way.

If there is truly a success story. And I mean a real success story, not some lame brain, "Oh, I found the most wonderful Dom but he lives in Calgary right now" type of crap.

Funny Story...but of course, negative in nature. What a surprise. This is starting to become my negativity blog.

I was browsing the home page profiles out of boredom. I came across the profile of a Dom from a different part of the country. I'll leave names and locations out of it. The only reason I viewed his profile was because in the preview, it had a note regarding race relations in this lifestyle. *I will mention that this was a black man*.

I went on to waste 20 minutes of my life reading this long and wordy journal entry about why black is the master race and superior to all others and there's no other servitude better than that of a black Master in control of a white slave. Now, before I go further, I will say, flat out, that I'm neither racist nor ignorant. We're all people when it comes to the race category in my eyes. 

So, he continues on about how blacks will be the master race and the creation of man was meant for whites to serve black people and there's no better feeling for whites than to be controlled by blacks, and it's better if we just admit it...yada yada, etc.

There were elements of this post that offended me. He was taking this journal entry and his "wisdom of race relations" to a level that goes far beyond that of the bdsm and kink lifestyle. So, I felt the need to comment to him regarding his ignorance. And not only that, but it's this kind of ignorance from people like him that is the driving force behind racism today. He responded with some garbage about how his entry received a 24-1 approval rating for something, so I should "direct my comments to someone who gives a fuck". So, I responded but, was blocked. So my question is this. Is that how the Master Race will operate in future? Claim a 24-1 approval rating and then hide from a discussion like a coward?

My initial contact to him was not rude, judgmental, or confrontational in anyway. It was objective. Racism today, is driven purely on the ignorance of people still living in the past. The small percentage of people who still, to this day, feel that society owes them something for what happened how ever many years ago. Racism, is the ultimate example of "Beating A Dead Horse". 

Why do I have to keep adding negatives. Aside from fakes, scammers, gold diggers, and bots, I've discovered a new species to add to my "avoid" list. I don't like to talk bad about people who are out of a job, especially in these current economic conditions. However, if you're out of a job, and worrying about how you're going to pay rent, cell phone bill, and buy food for yourself, staying up all night online and sleeping all day isn't exactly the best approach to fixing your situation. Do any subs on this site have the ability to stand on their own two feet? I am one who takes care of my subs but you seriously have to be able to function on your own as well. Otherwise, you're just wasting my time.

Ugh, I would really love to post something positive for once. Does anyone have anything positive to talk to me about?

I've noticed a trend on here. I'm pretty sure it's the same person who owns all the profiles because the pics, the writing style, and everything is just so similar. I'm not going to put any names down but if they read this, he or she will know who he/she is.

I read the profile of a sub woman a bit ago. It said she is the pet of a Master and that I should ask her Master's permission to speak to her. Being the respectful person that I am, I did just that, and learned that this Master was in another country. It didn't raise a red flag because that is possible. But what did was the amount of "pets" on this site that this "Master" owned. Apparently there were 4 or 5 just in the Philadelphia area alone. I didn't care to know the rest of their names but the profile of this Master and the slave that I received permission to speak to were eerily similar. A pic from a high angle, head facing down, hand covering part of the exposed area of the face. Despite my skepticism, I continued to converse with this "slave". Her end of the conversation was very bland, which is understandable with some people, but after a while, it was too bland. There were too many extraordinary circumstances to her situation. She was happily married, not really into the lifestyle but understood herself as this "Master's" pet, no stories or experiences to speak of and of course, was not willing to share a pic or meet. Once I shared a story with her and said that she must do the same, she said she "doesn't kiss and tell" so we don't have anything more to talk about.

She never tried to solicit anything from me and the conversations maintained continuity so I know he/she wasn't a bot. But I'm sure others have found themselves in this same situation with this person or one of his/her other profiles. I found other profiles who's pics and brief profile descriptions are just too similar. There's no doubt in my mind now that they are all the same person. This person has a Master profile and then created several pet profiles and all stake a claim to this Master. All the profiles are the same style. It's now becoming easier to spot.

This person, whoever he/she is, really needs a life.

What is a challenge?

I once found it challenging to introduce people to my sadistic nature in the bedroom if they weren't into the bdsm lifestyle. It was scary for some women. So I took a different road and started talking about my ways once the ever lovable topic of sex was brought up. That piqued some interest but even as I tamed it all down, it was too extreme for them.

So I decided to go this route. Coming onto a community online that is geared specifically toward this. I thought what I went through before was a challenge. But this is incredibly challenging. I don't know what it is.

Is it because I don't have photoshop enhanced pics of myself splashed all over my profile?

Is it because no women are really looking for anything on here?

Is everyone on here fake? Or spam?

I've had a few online conversations recently from users on here and they ended abruptly. These were "women" who seemed enjoyable to talk to. Of course, I realized they never even viewed my profile after the conversations suddenly ended. No more responses to messages, even when the conversation had 0 negativity and was just a conversation.

So I must say, this is a challenge. I'm sure there is someone real on here...just haven't met her yet.

Things I find funny:

1. subs who are looking for someone to treat them with respect and trying to find their true soulmate or love of their life. Then you look at their photos and it's full of nude pics with writing on their body like "slut whore" or "pig slut".

2. subs who say "have a pic or you won't get a response", then when you look at their photos, they have one and it's of their feet.

3. subs who have a laundry list of 38 qualities they require of their Dom/Domme or else move on.

And Finally...

4. slaves who are looking for immediate ownership and expect someone to just drop everything and move them into their house or help them relocate. That is the funniest.

Where's the reality? I understand that 99% of this lifestyle is all roleplay but, there has to be a sense of reality. Or at least reason, doesn't there?