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I've never found a slave here or the previous site but I'll try again. If you've actually worn a collar 24/7 IN REAL LIFE or believe you are capable of being treated as an object, talk to me. We shall see what we shall see.
Conventional feelings mean nothing to me. I've been accused of being a misogynist and a chauvinist. Call it what you will. I understand me. I understand why I do what I do.?
You will not be mistreated. No smart person ever knowingly mistreats his property unless it is a training or discipline issue.?
I will require a long discussion and a written contract. I know the contract is not a legal document. Consider it more of a written list of rules, agreed to by both parties. If you've never created a written list of your limits and needs, have them written before we meet... Good day.
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PS... I DO NOT DO LONG DISTANCE. The only way I've ever done long distance is if the slave is a pay pig. I do accept pay pigs but our relationship would be very different.
Also, no owner would waste their time and money on relocating a piece of property since there is a very real possibility that they will find no value in it. So don't ask...
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Dominant
96% Primal (Hunter)
96% Rigger
96% Master/Mistress
94% Owner
93% Sadist
68% Non-monogamist
56% Brat tamer
52% Experimentalist
50% Daddy/Mommy
41% Voyeur
39% Degrader
21% Ageplayer
13% Exhibitionist
8% Switch
7% Masochist
5% Vanilla
4% Rope bunny
3% Submissive
2% Primal (Prey)
2% Slave
1% Brat
1% Pet
0% Girl/Boy
0% Degradee
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Hey phishers...
I'm not interested in liars. I'm not interested in people who don't read my profile/journalor those who can't follow directions.
CS how about finding a way to sort phishers out? |
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The BDSM community sure has changed over the years. I was bored and browsing those fairly local to me who claim to be slaves... Most sound more like they are looking for a vanilla "love" relationship. I'm guessing they've never actually been a slave. More of a dominant/submissive weekend warrior type thing.
But, if there are those who accept a certain behavior, that behavior will flourish. So, where are those who need more than that? Where are those who need micromanaged and are willing to accept punishment when they fail? I should probably qualify that by saying that willingness is only a piece of the requirements I require.
Strong, mentally and physically. Physically healthy (no joint or breathing issues). Petite (its hard to be creative in one's ropework when one's subject requires engineering to strengthen supports...) AND a slave who knows how to exhibit the ART of serving. Not someone who has only done online and can just write soft porn... |
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Ugghhh... Slaves, whoever told you that you were a slave? Understand, no dominant is the same as another. Sometimes, you will come across one that is real and has been through the initial "discovery" phase. One who really does live it.
That dominant is watching very carefully. No one likes to waste their time or have someone who wastes their time. One of the first things we look at is your opening statement. If yours is full of "I this..." or "I that...", it tells us that the relationship is going to be about making you happy, a situation also known as "topping from the bottom".
That opening statement needs to let us know that you understand what the Owner/slave relationship is. Surprise, it's not just a big old sexfest. Being a slave is not simple. Especially if you enter into a 24/7 commitment (in my opinion, real slavery).
One of my primary rules is that a slave ALWAYS be found pleasing. That doesn't mean ass-kissing. That means, even in pain or sickness or even just a headache, your dominant can see you out of the corner of his eye and find you pleasing to look at, pleasing to talk with or even just pleasing to sense. Yes, with dominants like me, you will become very aware of your senses, just as I am aware of my surroundings.
So, the point of this? To let you who really think you can be a slave and not just a toy that is played with and then put away until YOU want to play again, dominants are watching and judging your value as a slave and you may miss out on an experience like no other if that initial statement doesn't please us. |
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