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Well here I go ... Im Curiousone, Iv been into this all my adult life and had the odd experience here and there until about 4 years ago where i became much deeper involved. Im glad Iv found this site, its good to be able to talk about things without being judged and as its such a taboo in the vanilla world this brings the community together and breaks the bonds of day to day life. Everyone has their guilty pleasures after all. Im originally from yorkshire
I think for me its much more than just either being tied or doing the tying, the whole ethos surrounding us all, i feel the connection is stronger between all those involved not to mention the trust that is emplaced and the care and consideration that is shown. In a bizarre twist, I feel free when Im tied tight Communication is louder when a person is gagged I love learning new techniques and developingadapting old ones, reading a persons body language, looking at their eyes telling me how they are feeling, giving up control completely into the hands of another. I could be seen as greedy being a switch, having the best of both worlds, Im a jack of all trades but a master of non, as the saying goes I do feel a little intimidated and nervous about attending events, Id love to go to some and make it regular, I know we dont judge and are all a friendly bunch but I guess until I pop my event cherry I wont know what Im missing Nothing is off limits and I love to give anything a try at least once Looking forward to what the future holds and hopefully get to know you lovely people Be safe and if anyone has any questions or advice Id love to hear it
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