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The chances of me being dominant are about as great as the earth falling off its axis. It wont change. Please respect that when contacting me. I may be inexperienced in this lifestyle but have life experience. My lack of lifestyle experience does not make me a doormat and I don’t have an instant submission gene. When someone asks me to describe myself I say nerdyfantastic meets edgy and its not in a pretentious hipster way. Private and quietly shy but not around people I know and like, and decisively assertive at work. A 1950’s household interests me and I’m curious about a poly lifestyle to. I don’t fit neatly into any one box and some might consider me a contradiction. Living in a cage, your garage or tied to a tree and 24/7 no limits isnt for me. Im more interested in exploring the mental side of bdsm and of course, a connection. I'm looking for more than kinky sex…“know my mind and you can have my body, know my heart and my entire being is yours.”
I’m into the usual random stuff like music, movies, shopping, having fun with my family and friends, clubbing, dancing and going on adventures. I have a job I love, dont need anyone to take care of me financially and dont want to take care of you financially.
Id like to meet a single, non narcissistic Dom between 25-35 in Illinois or close to it. Age is not a deal breaker BUT we need to have things in common and grandpa age is creepy. My definition of single is without a wife, sub or girlfriend. Im into men that are fit, employed, and do not look like they've been on a 24/7 coke binge with Charlie Sheen. If what you've read sounds good, please say hello. This is not my quote but I liked it so much I asked if I could include it in my profile. "A man with strength does not feel the need to prove himself dominant or strong, he simply is." One more thought "Doms don't consider, they take"
Under consideration is not something I will say yes to
5/11/2011 11:01:12 PM

Im not able to relocate. My family, job and school are here in IL. Sooo I dont get why people always message from nowhere near me and expect what? Does anyone take the time to read profiles? Not interested in long distance, or online.

5/1/2011 8:19:57 AM

if I give you my YIM it's because I'm interested. I dont send out engraved invitations to random people

4/29/2011 12:57:48 AM

So tired but wanted to see the royal wedding

4/25/2011 6:40:16 PM

Evs thanks. I 

so <3 u. Looking at situations from someone elses perspective makes all the difference and not a Whaaaaat the hell moment. lol meltdown avoided

4/23/2011 6:52:41 PM

Who parks their RV at Walmart and then cooks out in the parking lot like its a campgound.

I hate Walmart

4/20/2011 7:20:58 PM

I told you nicely 5 times I wasn’t interested. Blocking you was the only option. Rejection happens. Be a man and move the fuck on. In the end, all you do is make yourself look like a pathetic, drama addicted loser, when you message people and warn others in chat rooms to stay away from me cuz I’m fake. A person like you should come with a permanent warning label to others, clearly stating you have no integrity, self esteem and severe emotional problems.