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Well, I have been away for awhile. Life is good as usual, but now I wonder if I will meet someone on here that will peak my curiosity. :) You will notice that I do not have my picture here, I will share with the right person as i become more comfortable, but I do not feel comfortable with posting a picture that the 'wrong' sort might come across. I hope you understand.
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I am beginning to get discouraged, not with my search, but perhaps the idea of searching in such an open venue. So many of the Dom's i have spoken to put 'the' major emphasis and requirement of submission firmly on how much good sex they can get and i have always felt that 'sex is sex' you can get that anywhere, anytime.. if you just want some kinky chick to let you bed her in imaginative ways, that's no better than plopping down a few dollars and hiring a hooker for the night.
D/s encompasses more, so so much more, and i am looking for a Dom who can stimulate me intellectually, spiritually, make me feel safe, and secure in my submission, can test my limits and take me places i have never dreamed i would go before.... and the sex? that would just be a 'happy byproduct' so to speak, not the meat and potatoes of the relationship.
Afterall, if 'kinky sex' was all it was about... why go through the work of seeking a Dom, you can get kinky sex in a vanilla relationship right?
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Well, my first few days on here has been fun, I've met some really nice people, and a few scary ones. heh... GADomMale is really nice and acts like the Big Uncle i never had. i thought I had found someone that i really wanted to get to know. Meh, that lasted about... ohh... 3 days, until he assumed i had lied about the craziest thing and went off on me. Whoa... was that distressing! Strange, but i guess some people play so many games on this place that it's hard to believe when you meet someone that really hates games and refuses to play them.... anyway... the search for the elusive Dominant continues on!.... wheee...
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