US: Have you ever gotten a secret thrill from being "made" to do something erotic or kinky? In the beginning it was a simple request that i wear a specific dress when we went out for dinner, where he had me remove my thong while we were seated in the booth. Since we have been together our play has escalated to where there are evenings i have been “forced” to strip to nothing but heels & hose, “ordered” to put cuffs, collar, & leash on myself, and then had to “beg” him to cuff my hands behind me and take me for a ride in the car. This makes me very excited & wet, since i know that for the first part of the drive i will be visible, because he “makes” me sit in the front seat where it is easy for him to play with me. Usually he blindfolds me for the drive, but lately he wants me to see the people that might see me. After it gets nice and dark, he usually takes me to a park for a “walk,” and then ties my hands to a tree branch and does me doggie style, right there in the park. If i haven’t followed my “orders” exactly, i may even get a spanking while i’m tied to the tree!
In case you couldn't tell, i LOVE this (and Him!), and we are a happily married couple. His ability to “see” what i wanted, and to deliver it in large quantities is only one of the reasons. He has enjoyed erotic control play since he was a teenager, and i have been playing for about five years - since i found him! He is a VERY creative dominant, although he will switch occasionally. i am always submissive to him sexually, although otherwise we are equal. He is Caucasian, and i was born & raised in China.
We are not Bar / Nightclub people, and we would rather spend time exploring the region around the San Francisco Bay area. It’s fun to play in new places! We are not interested in pain, although i do enjoy a good spanking. We have a large toy collection, but some of the best “toys” are everyday items that i am “forced” to use in an unusual manner, so they "remind me" when i use them later. We have recently begun pony play, and i am beginning to like the way he uses our crop. We use BDSM play to enhance our marriage by increasing communication, sensation, and trust.
We don’t smoke, rarely drink, and never use drugs. Our minds may be in the gutter, but our bodies are clean and disease free.
YOU:
A Women or Couple (man and woman) for erotic email exchange, phone fantasies, performing only (little/no contact) or watching only (little/no contact)
TOGETHER:
We are looking to communicate with other couples or single women who enjoy this type of fun. We would love to exchange experiences and ideas about places and/or new ways to play. If you lived close enough, and if we clicked via e-mail and phone, we might consider meeting for coffee and/or dinner. Our ultimate goal is to spice up our marriage and possibly make friends with a few people/couples that understand the way we play, and would enjoy playing together.
WE DON’T SWAP, although He sends shivers down my spine when He describes what He will "make" me do if we meet, what types of commands from you i will “have” to obey when we do meet you, and what He will allow you to do to me.
i will attempt to answer all those who write more than one line, but please take the time to READ our profile first, and then respond if you think you might be what we are looking for. Please give us an idea of what you like and expect. After all, that’s what i just did for you here.
Pictures are greatly appreciated; especially if they show what you like to do for fun, but close-ups of your crotch are the last part of you we want to see first. Whenever i send mail to someone i have been "ordered" to ask what kind of pictures of me they want to see. i will then “have” to provide you with pictures posed the way you want, assuming we get some from you in return. i enjoy this, because i get to do new and different things that we might not have thought of.
We are primarily interested in other M/f couples, but we would definitely consider a F/m couple or a single female. Sorry, but NO SINGLE MEN ! ! !
After He proofed this He had me add: We are not interested in asphyxiation, torture, knives, guns, blood, water sports, or anything that causes permanent marks.
