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Something about me ----------------- Intellect and mindset: Articulate (except when I'm not), curious. Conservative in certain ways, surprisingly free in others. Temperament: If people could be classified by their likeness to domestic animals, I'd be a cat-person: clean, creature of habit, somewhat finicky and picky, aloof if something doesn't feel right, approachable when comfortable, and underneath the surface poise there's usually frenzied activity. But then I also have the loyalty and general affability you'd expect of a dog-person (though I am not known to slobber... except maybe when aroused) so this is where the stereotyping breaks down. Plus I'm randy as a goat. Appearance: Good-looking (flatterer...), trim, athletic build. I make an effort to look after myself, and if I may say so (myself) I think I usually succeed. I don't cut a poor figure. I am open to eventually sharing photos, but only after I'm comfortable with you (and vice versa). Sexuality: The most accurate description of my BDSM orientation is probably 'Switch', though I am quite probably more dominant than submissive (actually, if I had my way I'd avoid using terms like 'dominant' and 'submissive' altogether, but in the interest of clarity...). Something about you (maybe) ------------------------- You're probably a lot like me in certain crucial ways- in the ways that make you fundamentally 'you'. Perhaps you're generally regarded as conservative and reserved in some of your tastes and habits, with most people not having the slightest clue what lies beneath your skin, what thoughts course through your mind. Your friendliness is given freely, but your friendship is earned. You believe in a balance between what is given and what is taken. Within your head lies an entire world of your own making; certain aspects of that world you want to make tangible- brought from within to the world outside yourself- and perhaps that is a reason you're here. You have a feeling there is much to be had- much pleasure, much satisfaction, much warmth and companionship- but you want to have it carefully, responsibly.