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I am an intelligent and grounded college graduate. I am a stable professional and own my own home, car, etc. I have rarely dated long term because I was not interested in that until now.
My ideal relationship would be with a girlfriend I would be proud to introduce to my friends and family. Someone that will be happy to go on normal dates, be taken out to the bar, or just hang out at game night with friends. I want a woman that respects herself, and expects the same from her significant other. Yet behind closed doors, a girl that is submissive and very kinky. Someone that I can build enough trust with to explore all of her, and my own fantasies.
I have not been with a plethora of women because I have never interested in that. Yet, I am not inexperienced. I am always safe, sane, and consensual. I am careful with any activity and never want to harm someone; physically or mentally.
For long term dating, I am looking for a girl age 21-32. Physical attraction is also necessary. This doesn't mean you need to be a model as I do enjoy many different looks, but there does need to be some sort of chemistry. Also, this wouldn't be just about sex. I seek someone that will trust me enough to guide them in the right direction and I seek to have control over the 'big' decisions. While I'll want the last say about many things, I still find the Dom/sub relationship to be more of a team. The sub should seek to please me, and in turn, I should do my best to make sure she is happy, healthy and help her grow as a submissive and as a woman.
As far as BDSM, my interests are varied, but mainly concern control in the bedroom. This may mean you'll be tied spread eagle to my bed teased and pleasured until you can't stand it, or maybe you'll be spanked and ordered to stand in the corner while I use the computer. I am very hands on, and you should expect to be touched and caressed at any moment. I enjoy mixing pain and pleasure and love teasing, tickling and any kind of petting or kissing. Other specific interests include, collars, cuffs, gags, blindfolds, rope, vibrators, spanking, erotic pain, oral sex (giving and receiving) and basically any type of locking bondage. My absolute limits are blood, scat, permanent marks or injury, plus anything lacking common sense.
Physically, I am slim, 5'10", 150 pounds, have brown hair and blue eyes. I'm told I look younger than I am. I'll be happy to send a photo if you are serious about meeting and I would expect the same. However I'm leery of posting on here and then being forever archived by google.
In an actual relationship I'd expect the girl to be somewhat submissive all the time. However, I do not want a doormat or someone that expects to be micromanaged. Any woman good enough to be with me should have her own opinions and not be afraid to express them. I'd actually encourage small arguments and lighthearted disagreement. That is, as long as in the end... I have the final say.
If what I've described is something you are looking for please contact me. I am happy to meet in a public place or take you on a traditional date to show you I am a normal down to earth guy who happens to be interested in BDSM. I am also ready for someone that would like to meet at my house for a simple glass of wine and possibly more if we click. Please ask any questions you'd like. I will respond to all sincere and respectful messages.
I am mainly looking for something long term. But since I am still single, I would also be open to one time connections or short term relationships. If you'd like to meet someone safe to explore your kinks, I'd be happy to help. You can take a look at the profile photo for possible toys that will be used on you. Plus; A free spanking to anyone who can guess my favorite color!
You read this whole profile? Stop procrastinating and write me a nice message. I don't bite... hard.
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