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Random friend requests will be ignored, at the very least it would be nice if you could introduce yourself in a message. I will also ignore all messages without a picture. Thank you. :)
I`m a woman that likes simple things. I don`t use make up or perfume because I have no need for such things and takes too much time. I`m not interested in the usual flowers, candies and jewelry; flowers wilt, candies are usually awful and jewelry is irritating in general. I'm a Hershey's chocolates and stuffed animals kind of woman. I do not like social media, texting and I couldn't care less about celebrities. I love online and offline gaming and yes, female gamers do exist! I like classical music but I would listen to anything that I find to be acceptable. I want to do everything (with some exceptions) at least once in my life, like bungee jumping, skydiving, so many more things to do!!! I love roller coasters; I even make people around me feel less scared because of my maniacal laughter because they are suddenly more worried about the crazy person next to them. xD Even though I'm Asian, I suck at math, hate bubble tea and dislike dim sum. In public I'm a workaholic with a type A personality, but in private I'm a messy type B personality that doesn't give a damn.
When I was growing up money was tight and every penny counted, so I have very strong opinions about how people spend their money. I believe in sacrificing things short term for your long term goals. Therefore, I don't give a damn about your bad ass, super sexy, gas guzzling sports car or truck that loses half its value once you drive it off the lot and you get a new one every few years. If anything, it's a turn off because in my opinion it shows me that you spend your money frivolously; the smell inside of a new car is terrible. I personally drive a second hand car that looks like every other car on the road and I plan on driving it for the rest of my life, the maintenance costs too much for what the car is worth or until it breaks down. The car does its job of getting me from point A to point B while carrying the things I need or bought; that's all I want and need from a car. I don't give a damn about your sweet bachelor pad that you are paying an arm and a leg for every month. I am currently living with my parents as a student to be able to work in a field that I love and will use the opportunity to save money and be able to afford my own home or a commercial building for the business I plan to start. Of course, your goal may be different, but I believe that building equity in buying your own property is much more worth it in the long run. If you waste all of your money in the present, what happens in your future?
I am purely a Domme, no switching here. Contrary to popular belief, not all Dommes are mean b*tches and and some Dommes like myself truly care for my subs and their well being. To all you narrowed minded people, just because I like cute things doesn't mean I can't be a good Domme.
I am not a professional Domme nor do I feel that I will ever want to be a pro, but I never know what the future brings.
With that said, I know what I want and I won't settle for anything less. I know my personality doesn't seem to match my pictures, but I can't change who I am or what I look like. I am not going to lie about who I am, I'm looking for men for the rest of my life and they has to be able to take me as I am. I'm hopeless romantic at heart but I will not sacrifice what I need to be satisfied for the rest of my life. I do not "need" men, but I do want men. I am not looking to play around, I am looking for forever. I am interested in Polyamory, but forever and love still applies; I do not pick "primaries or otherwise." If and when I give my love, it is all encompassing and favorites do not exist as my love does not work in that way. Polyfidelity is very important to me and my poly group must be able to understand that and comply. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyandry
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyfidelity
I am currently studying to be a Dog Trainer and Groomer and hope to open my own pet oriented business one day. Pet daycare, grooming, dog obedience training, selling organic products and homemade meal for pets are some of the things that I plan on doing with my business.
What I am looking for in a man/men:
I love natural subs/slaves. You must be around my age, give or take a few years and live in or near NYC. I like twinks, string beans or guys with a toned slim body and a cute face that will make me want to violate and grope you at every opportunity. I would also be alright with a more athletic type of man, but he must be completely subservient to me. I want a man that is willing to submit to me in mind, body and soul for life. I want someone that can take what I dish out and ask for more. I will not want to do anything with anybody that I am not attracted to, so please don't get upset if I'm not interested. My taste in men varies so much that I can't even pinpoint my type.
You MUST want to be in a life long term committed Female Led Relationship(stage 4 http://www.aboutflr.com/What-Is-FLR.html Note: I am not interested in the financial domination part, unless it is a fetish of my chosen one/s). I would not be adverse any other kind of fetish you may be interested in, however, in the end, it is my choice whether or not to participate. I want men that can go with me to workshops and learn how to do things the proper way. :) Shibari one of the things I want to learn and it's beautiful.
I do not emasculate men in public, you would be free to show off all your manly glory, however, in private, things will be very different. >:) I believe that submission should be freely given and not taken. I am more than happy to let the man get the reins in public as long as he knows deep down that he belongs to me.
We will start with a Vanilla relationship and you will court me as you would any other woman; being a Domme doesn't mean I jump right into bed with anybody or scene with them. My interest in this fetish doesn't make me a slut, it's regretful that I even have to say this. -_-; Once things start to get serious we can slowly start to incorporate all our fetishes into our time together. I am relatively new to this lifestyle and I would be open to a beginner like myself or an experienced sub/slave that would help me become the perfect Domme. I know that a relationship like this will need need a foundation of love and trust and I am hoping to go down this road with my perfect someone/s.
Do NOT message me if: These are deal breakers.
If you are an overzealous religious person.... please don't bother.
If you want to cyber, have a fling, have a play session or have no interest in meeting in person.
If you wear enough cologne to choke a horse. I prefer men that do not wear cologne at all.
If you do any "recreational" drugs, smoke anything at all or drink excessively.
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