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I'm looking for something a bit different than the usual Collarme profile is, so please please read my profile before you send me a message.

And when you send me a message, please don't make it a one liner.  No matter how "right" for each other may be, I'm going to ignore you if you simply write "I like your profile, check mine to see if we match." or something stupid like that.


I am bi, but I lean mostly towards men.  A girl would have to be very special for me to consider her, but I won't rule it out.

I'm not into bondage, S&M, pain, etc.  What I'm in to is control, specifically control over my habits.  Mainly the use of the bathroom, but also things like what to wear and what to eat are hot to me as well.

I am into diapers, but I'm not an adult baby and don't want a pacifier in my mouth or a bed time story.

I want someone who matches me, and is willing to control me in such a way. 

Ideally it'd work out to be a normal boyfriend situation, except that he controls when I pee, when I poop, when I shower, shave, what I wear, and what I eat.  On road trips he'd make me wear diapers because he doesn't trust me to hold it, and make me hold it for hours after he knows I need to go until I either burst, or he finally pulls into a rest stop.  At home a lock would be on the bathroom door, and he would decide when and if I were allowed to use the toilet. 

If he wants to punish me, making me go hungry for a day, or choosing an ugly outfit for me to wear would be what he'd do.  Or maybe he'd order me to eat things I don't like, or make me pee my pants in public.  I don't know, I'm not the boss.  :)

So, in summary, I want someone to control my bodily functions, my eating, my clothing, and perhaps other things.

And again, I am NOT into pain.  At all.

If you've read this and think we're a match, message me.