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Let me rub my blue collar against you and dirty up that white shirt you've been wearing for too long. Working Class. Skilled Labor. Disabled. Genderbent. Profoundly Compassionate. Service Oriented. I'm an industrial construction worker with rough hands, a sailor's mouth and a soft heart. I have more passion than the hours in my days allow for. I'm slowly and carefully seeking a service dynamic at this time. I'm oriented towards submission that is driven by devotion, generally to a household, but sometimes to individuals. I want to be your servant, valet, confidant and eventually your property. I don't take service dynamics lightly- I invest as much time in service as my more vanilla relationships. In my writings, there is an ad to read if you're interested in finding out more. While I have used many words to describe myself over the years, I have settled into using the word "Butch". They/them/theirs.
8/13/2016 9:58:58 PM
While I'm relatively new to this site, you can find my significantly more fleshed out profile under the same user name on FL. 
8/11/2016 5:15:04 PM
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Queer, service oriented, masculine of center fetishist seeks long term service arrangement with a Dominant individual or poly household.

The relationship I'm looking for can take months or years to cultivate- I'm not looking for a one off opportunity to scrub your floors or buy your groceries. I want a long term dynamic based on service, devotion, praise and intimacy. To that end-

I prefer service over control.
I prefer devotion over manipulation.
I prefer rewards over punishments.

What I'm offering: my skills, experience, attention and desire.

I'm a technically savvy tradesperson, a competent personal assistant and a quiet house cleaner. I find joy in menial tasks and have a fondness for repetition. I'm reliable, attentive, punctual, skilled and communicative. My skills and experience would be of particular use to a home owner, small business person, educator and/or performer.

My attention and desire are a reflection of devotion in my service dynamics. The ongoing and time-intensive nature of service lends itself to an intense sort of devotion. I can't do justice to it with words, but those I've served still have it, and once it is freely given, it is nearly impossible to wrest back. Regardless, its a pretty cool thing, and something I love about good service dynamics.

Who I'm looking for: You're an Earth shaker. You know why you're on this planet, and you're working towards that end. You're busy and could use more hours in your day, especially those hours that are taken up by the tedious tasks of daily living. You're likely a small business owner, artist, educator and/or a community leader.

You may have had success in the past with service dynamics, or wished for one in moments where your to-do list stretched beyond the limits of a 24 hour day. Today, you could see the value of a service oriented person becoming a weekly fixture in your life. You have clarity around the uses you could put this person to, and what you could accomplish with the extra hours in your day.

You have the energy and ability to articulate your needs and desires. You are a clear communicator, slow to anger and patient with those who are in your service. Intention and execution are given equal consideration when things don't go as planned (because we all make mistakes sometimes).

Finally, I'm looking for someone who would eventually feel entitled to my service. Service works best for me when it is an expectation, not an option. I'm not doing this for you as a favor because we're bros- I'm doing this for you because I am your servant. We all deserve to receive well executed service, and I'm looking for someone who can embrace that and utilize me as a tool to further their personal goals within the context of a structured D/s dynamic.

The nitty gritty: No kids present during household service. No service that involves child care. No monogamous or heterosexual people (sorry folks, just not my thing).

At this point, I am actively looking for a regular service dynamic. However, I'm in no rush to "put a collar on it"- I'm committed to waiting for the right fit and ensuring compatibility of needs and desires on both sides of the equation.

I'd love to hear from you if you'd like to talk more about this type of dynamic.