Older, educated, submissive who was involved in a long distance relationship with a loving daddy Dominant for many years. The bi-coastal relationship became difficult to maintain and I asked to be released about a year ago. I now feel adrift. The intimacy of a D/s pairing is missing from my life.

I am possibly too vanilla for many Dom's. I am not a slave, nor a pain slut. I am a woman who is looking for a man who I can take care of , both sexually and emotionally, and who needs a submissive female to instruct and protect. This might sound idealistic, but these relationships do exist. I am a bit of a dichotomy... child/woman, respectful/tease, independent/devoted. I am intelligent with a lot to learn.
I love/hate being spanked. DD households entice me yet I also have a stubborness that rails against them. I have spent too much time fighting my own needs.
I could go on but you get the idea.

You are a secure man who relishes a woman with these mixed desires. Your sense of humor is one of your biggest assets. You live your life being just, yet forgiving. Playfulness is quite important to you, your own as well as others. Discussing everything from world events to sea turtles to music interests you.

If you'd like to chat let me know. Will trade photos. Friendships welcome too.