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Cheezewheel

To answer your concerns, yes, I am indeed a giant wheel of cheese. I live for Philosophy and Mathematics. And Bondage is pretty fun too. I have experimented with bondage in previous relationships but it was primarily with me being in control. Although being in control is fun and all, I couldn't help but feel that *I* wanted to be the one getting tied up and teased. (There is a lot more too it though, obviously) So now here I am. I really like philosophical topics and discussing things, particularly things relating to epistemology. If you know what "epistemology" means you are already score highly in my book :) I am stable, dedicated, with a decent routine, interests and hobbies and am University Educated. I have consistent night cycles and I keep away from harmful habits like drinking and smoking. I like the odd beer but don't drink until drunk. Not really into heavy smokers either. I know how to, and love to give massages and enjoy cooking and incinerating raw materials until they bend to my will (who says cooking isn't manly). What I am currently looking for is to have a meaningful relationship with someone who I respect intellectually and develop an intimate and emotional relationship, where they also identify themselves as someone who wants to be the one "in charge" of the relationship (whatever that may mean), or who otherwise identifies as a dominant. There is not specific relationship dynamic I am looking for (outside of the fact that I really enjoy bondage related activities), whether it be that they enjoy tying me up every so often and teasing me, or wanting me to serve them in some fashion. There are a lot of things that I can find appealing and would enjoy doing depending on the relationship (that, of course, I would be happy to discuss in more detail), but that isn't to say that I am just looking for "any old dom." Findoms can peddle elsewhere, I have no desire to be a "24/7 slave" or the sort (not that I am against the relationship having elements of D/S "outside of the bedroom"), and I am personally strictly monogamous (although I open to discuss the possibility of having a polyamorous partner). Whatever play or service we do is something I would want to do because of my relationship with them, not just something I could pay some random person on the street to do. Feel free to ask for clarification.
P.S. I am not comfortable posting pictures of myself online (publicly at least) but I will gladly send them to you privately if you want/need them