Advocate...Mentor...Master

Dom: the partner in a BDSM relationship or in a BDSM scene who takes the active or controlling role over that of the submissive partner.

Traits of a Dom:
1. Curiosity
The ability to think inquisitively, such as exploration, investigation, and learning.
2. Honour
The ability to be morally upright, honest, and noble.
3. Humour
The ability to be amused, to laugh or smile at something funny.
4. Sensitivity
The ability to recognize and understand the emotions being experienced by another.
5. Wisdom
The ability to understand people, things, events, situations, and the willingness to apply perception, judgement, and action in keeping with the understanding of what is the optimal course of action.