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If you are short or fat or over 35, move on! Not interested and never will be. Got it? Good. Hasta la vista. NOT.

Certainly this doesn't apply to all femdoms thankfully, but all too often one too many tend to be short and overweight. Indeed, many are outright fat and obese and need to lose some weight. While this is certainly not peculiar to femdoms and some femsubs tend to be this way as well, the ratio of femsubs to femdoms that are short or overweight is low. At the clubs and fetish scenes you see these submissive pretty young things on the dance floor. Their sleek and sexy bodies and incredibly tight, hard asses and gorgeous legs makes even this hardcore masochistic submissive want to spank those asses into total submission. And then you turn around and there she is: a short 40 year old femdom who already has crow's feet showing around her eyes and in need to loose at least a good ten pounds and thinks she's got a chance. Someone didn't send her the memo: The 80's ended over two decades ago and she needs to start rocking to the oldies with Richard Simmons. I know how mean this sounds, but as someone who takes great pride in his appearance and hygeine, and works out regularly (where on a bad day has a body fat percentage of no more than 9%), I find it quite a turn off and insulting to say the least when approached by a woman that clearly isn't making the same effort and this begs the question of why. Is it because these femdoms think that because they are sexually dominant, they are exempt from any such reciprocity and simply let themselves go and no longer care--if ever? Or is it the opposite way, in that they are using the "femdom" title to get men desperate enough or submissive enough to not care?