Collarspace.com

Just looking

6/8/2008 6:02:21 PM
Since when did submissive begin to equal chickenshit?

This has happened a few times now where I've written to a potential sub or playmate, and they just don't reply back.

Look, if you aren't interested that's fine. First off, we're all adults here and I'm not going to bite anyone's head off if they feel the chemistry is lacking.

There are going to be people who we'll click with, and people we aren't going to so please just let us know if you don't think your interested.
1/29/2008 10:04:35 PM
ok , now that I've gone bad cop; let me give you the good cop.
First off, I do have pictures.  My wife and I live in a small town and we are very active in the community.  So just ask and I'll be glad to show you what we look like.
If you have seen this profile and just want to talk send me a message, I don't bite or go dramatic.  Though I'm looking for a submissive, I have no problem with just making friends as well.
1/29/2008 10:00:41 PM
There seems to be a lot of women (and I assume men as well) who don't take this seriously at best and at worst want this to be a forum for self-glorification.
Most of the submissive ads I seen are women are more into the drama and fantasy than a real D/s relationship.
Maybe I'm just too grounded in reality, but I don't want to read melodramatic garbage about your spiritual journey or how bad/good your last dominant was.
Tell me what you want out of a D/s based relationship.  Like are you looking for guidance, looking for a connection, or (gasp) just like being a submissive and are looking for a good Dom.
Also realize that like I'm not looking to meet you with collar and flogger in hands.  If you can't handle meeting for lunch/coffee in a low-key environment then you are way too high-strung to be a viable submissive (at least for me).