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theperfectgirl
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I am here looking for my partner, my little girl, my slut, my sub.
I am not interested in play partners, online, or fuck buddies . . . I am also not in a rush. If you expect to meet and fuck tomorrow afternoon, move on. I am looking for an actual connection with a strong, compelling submissive girl, hopefully leading to a D/s style relationship.
I'm strong, outgoing, and happy. I'm gigantic, and generally fairly loud, so I tend to be the centre of attention.
I am a protector, and a leader. I provide a place to belong and a purpose to follow. I create the opportunity for others to fulfil who they are. I decide what I want and then do whatever is necessary to achieve it.
I'm a calm alpha male and an interesting combination of old fashioned and new age. I'm open minded to a degree that freaks some people out, and I believe in fewer laws and more community . . . speaking of which I love debating politics, philosophy, religion . . . all the stuff you're not supposed to talk about!
I am a man of old fashioned values. I believe in honour, in respect, in responsibility, and in keeping your word. I believe in doing what you say you will do no matter what, and fulfilling who you are totally in everything you do.
While a D/s style relationship is one day to day way of expressing myself, I am also a sadist. Not in the sense that I enjoy hitting women with floggers and being a "top" . . . in the sense that I love causing and seeing pain, suffering and degradation. There are some things that I enjoy more than others, but it is a general appreciation of suffering and humiliation that makes me both entertained and sexually excited.
I enjoy all kinds of kinky sadism and abuse . . . not just specific situations or fetishes. I enjoy simple and direct forms of torture and humiliation (as my interests list will show you) as well as coming up with elaborate and creative scenarios and situations to evoke deep mental and physical pain.
I believe that the key to being a "good" sadist is balance. I counter my love of torture and abuse with my deep need to protect and keep my girl safe and happy . . . in fact, with the right person, my sadism can be an expression of my guidance and appreciation.
My views on D/s or M/s style relationships:
The title's of "Dom" or "Master" are convenient shorthand to convey concepts, but according to the common definitions I am neither. While I may a sadist, and dominant, and be seeking a TPE style relationship, I find that most definitions of "Dom" or "Master" tend to contain rigid pre-existing rule sets and protocols that have been defined by other people and do not necessarily reflect my own wants and requirements in a relationship.
Protocols, rules, and rituals are important, but the purpose of such things is to help create and maintain the feelings and dynamic of the relationship for both partners and I create protocols and rules of my own based on what works and what feels right, not based on what online definitions or other people's interests.
What matters is the feelings and the day to day life of the relationship, the protection and the comfort, the leadership and the support, the responsibility and the submission.
I believe that a healthy and happy M/s or D/s style relationship is exemplified by the following concepts (in no particular order):
- love and appreciation
- mutual respect
- communication
- total honesty
- trust and faith
- common goals
- responsibility
If you are curious what I mean by any of these particular things, simply ask. This profile is already long enough, so I will not go into more detail here and now.
My ideal sub/slave/girl:
I am looking for a female who is submissive by nature, who prefers to take a support role rather than be the centre of attention, and who is happiest when she is serving or pleasing her man. A girl who is strong and happy, and who is fulfilled most by serving and worshipping her man. She may enjoy some things more than others, and has her own interests in life, but her primary joy is the pleasure and happiness of her owner.
I get fulfilment from providing safety and guidance, in giving a sense of place and taking responsibility . . . it seems only natural to enhance that fulfilment with a submissive partner/property/sub who takes fulfilment from providing comfort, adoration, and support.
I am looking for the following traits in a prospective partner/slave/sub/girl:
- seeking a D/s or M/s or TiH style relationship (depending on how you define such things)
- fulfilled by service, by providing comfort and happiness
- a true masochist, not someone who enjoys a specific type of pain or experience, but who needs suffering, who craves pain and degradation at a level deeper than the sensation
- has a "little girl" side. i.e. can be cute and adorable, likes hello kitty, gets giggly at times . . . that sort of thing.
- is small/petite . . . I love the physical contrast and while I find a wide range of women attractive, I tend to lean towards smaller women.
- is intelligent and knowledgeable and enjoys learning and expanding her world
- has an identity of their own, not looking to be a drone, has things they enjoy and makes them happy on their own like hobbies or a career or something like that.
- has a domestic side and wants to be a partner and house wife
I am looking for definite power exchange relationship, normal "vanilla" relationships don't work for me (I don't think they work for most people! lol). I am not looking for a doormat or a pet, I am looking for a relationship that will be mutually fulfilling in complimentary ways.
If you think you may qualify then feel free to message me. Distance is not an issue (that's why we have airplanes and the internet), I am more concerned with finding the right girl, than a convenient girl, and I am very good at solving problems.
I’m always up for a chat and I’m very open and honest, so feel free to ask anything you like.
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A Man's dominance is a gift (and therefore a responsibility) that must be earned . . . his natural power and protection is something that must be appreciated and respected. He provides his girl the opportunity to serve him, to please him, to support him, to be true to herself.
When he has her make him dinner, or fucks her ass, or beats her, or cuddles her at night . . . he is taking all his valuable time and energy and effort and thought and focusing it on her! . . . not the girl next door, not the slut at work, not that girl eyeing him in the store . . . on HER.
He has decided she deserves him, that she has earned the gift of his dominance. He has decided to grant her the benefit of his protection, the opportunity to fulfil her purpose, and even the realization of her own power: the power to motivate and comfort him, the power to influence his mood and change his life day by day . . . the power to invoke his will and his power!
A strong and healthy submissive recognizes and respects the value of her own ability to give him comfort and happiness, and his ability to give her safety and place.
They both contribute, they both benefit, they both value the other. |
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