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I am non scene but having very much been the dominant force in every sexual relationship I thought it was about time I admitted I identify as a Dom. I am somewhat anti categorising people as I think most of us are more than one thing but I think if I had a sub side I would probably have discovered it by now so Dom it is! I have been indulged in my sex life having had a series of incredibly sexy and uninhibited girlfriends who did enjoy light bondage, spanking, etc. While I am not a sadist I do enjoy inflicting a degree of pain within play and where and when appropriate. The use of pain and force in play is inherent in most aspects of BDSM anyway. I had a very sub partner with masochistic leanings so with her I indulged us both increasing the level of force to deliver the release she desired. Unfortunately she had a partner and ultimately she decided to try to live a more vanilla life and get married so we parted. I enjoyed every moment I spent with her but also respected her choice!
While I am open to new experiences I have been asked to indulge in water sports and it didn't work for me and I draw the line at hard play or blood play. I would like to take on a sub/ subs who will work with me to develop my tendencies and technique.
Please note that I am very discrete and prefer to keep my interests behind closed doors that does not mean I wouldn't want to be seen in the street with someone but I take the view that the rest of the world can mind its own business!
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