Collarspace.com

charming, I just got blocked for point out that the women on this site look too good for the blokes!! Look at the women on this site then look at the blokes, it's bizarre!

Me - relatively new - only interested in a relationship, not casual.

Upper age limit is 38.

No couples.

No females.

No random play requests.

No cynics.

No game players.

If you're already in a relationship, I'm not interested. I'm not interested in watching or being watched. I'm not interested in sharing someone else's partner, nor my own when I have one. What a partner and I do behind closed doors is private.

I want to meet someone I can fall in love with and be happy with. If you don't want the same, don't contact me.

No pic, no reply.

One liner emails will be ignored.

I am not a lifestyler and do not want 24/7.  Nor do I want domination of my life outside of the bedroom.

A bit about me:

I am 31 and live in London. I have a good career which I have put a lot of time and effort into. I am financially independent and very easy going and relaxed. I like laid back people similar to myself that can deal with the ambiguity of the little details and see the bigger picture.

My hobbies are music and the great outdoors, travelling and trying new things, mainly adrenaline filled.

My life has had some interesting moments which have taken a great deal of strength and tenacity to work through.  If you are a cynical type and lack perspective through lack of life experience, then we will not be compatible. If you lack the ability to understand that I am passionate about certain things, then we will not be compatible.

I am a naturally upbeat, positive, optimistic and pragmatic person and always joking around. If you are a pessimist, cynic or grumpy type, we won't be compatible. If you can't put your problems in context (only certain things are intractable, the rest are about mental attitude) and work through them, we won't be compatible. Everyone gets lonely and everyone gets down - those are perfectly natural feelings. It's how much you can fight back and not let the bad times negatively colour your persona that counts.

My greatest quality is a very well developed level of integrity. I seek the same, however elusive that may be.