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discretenetwork
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| We are a kinky couple from Dublin and Belfast (M Dom and F Switch, both mid-30s) looking for new friendships and play with like-minded kinksters: particularly sub/ switch or Domme girls and couples.
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A good 'spark' and having fun exploring new things, as well as learning from each other, is more important than the type of play.
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We practise safe, respectful BDSM with plenty of communication and will be just as interested in knowing and learning about your kinks and needs as our own. Exploring new things together, in the right setting, is one of the greatest things about BDSM play.
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We value discrete, drama-free play.
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Things to know: We are both physically fit and aren't new to BDSM, photos are available once we know you are genuine, we'll meet before play, play will be occasional or even one-off, play can be non-sexual if ness.
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Want to play with us?
We (myself and my wonderful F switch partner) love to play together with others.
We don't mind if someone is male, female, sub, switch or Dominant: if there's a spark and a connection then half the fun is agreeing on a type of play one of us wants to share or try or develop or teach.
No matter if it is anything from a flogging to a more complicated role-play, exploring sexuality (as opposed to merely sex) together in that 'sweet spot' of trust, communication and respect is what we are after. Having an extra person adds intensity, good company, fresh ideas and a different atmosphere. If that someone also has a taste for intelligent, psychological play/ role play and trying new things then we'd be delighted.
Perhaps you might like to try playing with a Dom/ Domme couple, or are part of a couple who want to enjoy taking turns with a little 'show and tell' of our favourite types of play, or you fancy showing some Domme skills, or you need extra players for a role-play/ fear play/ humiliation play...whatever it is, the satisfaction of exploring together is the only thing on our checklist.
One of us can even take a back seat for the scene, we love watching the other play.
And yet this is surprisingly hard to find. Absolutely wonderful when we do, yes, but new friends and playmates made along the way are far out-numbered by no-shows, folk who find themselves a partner during negotiation (which is fair enough) and people who lose their nerve along the way.
So, if you are interested in play:
- We'll chat on to check that we can communicate in a basic way.
- We'll swop photos to check that there is a little physical 'spark' between everyone
- We'll meet for a friendly coffee and make sure everyone clicks
- After a checklist and once we are sure everyone understands your likes, dislikes, limits, and goals...we'll talk about safewords etc and get playing!
We prefer that I organise and negotiate any play on our behalf and we generally prefer to stay outside the 'scene' (I've decided that ideally scenes are for friendships...the less complicated the better!).
Play would be fairly occasional, perhaps one-off depending what everyone wants from it, and we also enjoy making new friendships along the way.
I thought it might be useful to have these upfront details about what we are about on here.
Drop us a line, we always like meeting new people.
Thanks for reading
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