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| i am a service submissive in search of a Woman to put me to good use. When i say service, i mean it, and will put Your happiness and needs first, foremost and exclusive to all else. i am not here to top from the bottom. i will not tell you about my sexual fantasies, unless you want to get into my head and peek around. i am cautiously dipping my toes back into these waters, having been off the market as it were for many months focusing on self-work and trying to make myself worthy of the next Woman who graciously allows me at Her feet. i am perhaps still a little skittish, but i believe i am a good investment.
i am an academic with an advanced degree and hope to maintain a modicum of anonymity by not posting a picture. However, i shall be happy to provide one upon request, cam verify, etc.
i am open to anything from no-strings attached housework to a long-term committed FLR. i come with no preconceptions and hope simply to find a connection and see where You lead. i am very obedient, follow directions, listen well and take correction gladly. i have, in the past, foolishly fancied myself a dominant, which did not tend to end well. This might, admittedly, make me a little challenging at times, but i am look forward to someone stripping down my ego and will happily surrender to a Woman who inspires confidence in Her leadership.
While i am not looking to meet a need other than to be of service to a deserving and superior Woman, i feel that I ought lay out the bounds of a compatible playing field if you will. While i am here for You and Your needs, and while i hope to never be put in a position to say no, i am pretty secure in who i am now, and do not wish to imperil my mental or physical health for anyone. So, for the sake of compatibility, i am not interested in financial domination, extreme sadists, being impaled on huge strap-ons, mental and emotional sadism, or watching You fuck anyone else. Now, if You enjoy telling me about your other sexual escapades, i will happily kneel at Your feet and listen attentively and smile as you tell me how i don't measure up. :) i should perhaps mention at this point that i'm a feminist, vegan, Buddhist (who meditates twice daily), and something of an anti-capitalist environmentalist. i try to take that all seriously, and i will say no to things that go against my core values. Now, if You happen to be a granola crunching Goddess into permaculture, off-grid living, tiny houses and sustainability, i will probably follow you to the ends of the Earth and beg for Your collar.
In terms of things that i like--mind You, these are not requests, merely the boundaries of where You will find a willing and happy servant--CFNM is a big one. Tease and denial and chastity. Playful humiliation (or done with intent to make me better). Corporeal punishment. Tea service. Kneeling attentively as you have your girlfriends over and making sure all the Ladies always have a full wine glass. Cooking, cleaning, chauffeuring, being an errand boy. Giving massages and foot rubs. Being a pet. Being micromanaged. Rope bondage. Caging. As i said, these are just ideas. i would never dream ask any of these. That said, if Your thing is kicking me in the balls and beating me bloody, i will respectfully decline and save us both the time. However, if Your thing is wanting someone who is competent in the kitchen to cook brunch for You and Your girlfriends every Sunday, pick me, pick me!
i have some flexibility in terms of relocation, so distance may not be an issue. i am certainly open if we have a connection. Please consider this a work in progress, and i am happy to answer Your questions.
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