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Arch1Girl

Having stumbled upon BDSM several years ago, I have enjoyed and continue to enjoy a journey. I seek to continue on, hopefully with a single, monogomous (primary) Dominant. I am not polyamorous, I am open to "playing" with other's if and when W/we decide. D/s relationships are as complex and profound and unique as each of the participants. In this respect, there is not a lot difference between D/s and Vanilla. It's about two individuals. I enjoy the outlet that submission affords me. I need it. And so, in this respect, my submission is not a gift. It is my very nature. The Dominant I seek is one who truly will not use my shared deepest thoughts as anything other than fodder for their own pleasure. Never as punishment. Were he to do so, he would lose anything true about me that I can give. I would know that He has other means of correcting me without compromising my trust. I take care of myself. I am otherwise content in my life. I do however, crave....the life of a commited D/s relationship. My Dominant, would be single, well over 40 and enjoys that I am very well educated, travelled and self sufficient. He and I can glide from an evening with friends back into a very D/s space when we got home. And wherever we are...we have that connection. My Dominant...my Master, he will embrace my hand...and force it when need be. He will know that my hand...is always extended.