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Hello!! Thank you for taking the time to visit :) What follows here may come off in a negative way and that is not the intention at all. Its the non-
watered down black and white truth. I am a happy person with great friends and alot of fun to be around :)
I am constantly seeking "the one" who knows that true dominance and submission begin in the mind, never the body. The one who knows he has the ability to see into all the little dark corners of my mind, pull out what he knows I need and feed it to me with a smile on his face :) and then use me without mercy to satisfy his own demons.
I classify myself as a submissive but I do not identify with much of the protocol. I have a healthy amount of dominant presence but again I do not identify totally there either.
I can switch under the right circumstances.
So...Where does a healthy, well adjusted, educated, self sufficient woman who happens to have an extremely Kinky appetite and loves to learn and enjoy all this life has to offer fit in this "lifestyle"?
Definitely not in the hands of alot of what I see here.
For all my fellow ONLINE CS pervs..No disrespect is intended but ..
1. It does little good to try and control me with Online aggression or fear. I have no dark need to be degraded or dehumanized, shit on, kept in a cage or "reprogrammed". I live in the real world.. with other intelligent grown adults who happen to enjoy the kinkier side of life.
2. Do not presume that you know what I want or need because your online dominance demands it or some book told you so, chances are you are wrong. How could you possibly know how best to shape me to your desires without getting to know me..what makes me tick. I do not fit any type of cookie cutter mold..I am one of a kind :)
I will gladly place myself in your hands...mind, body and soul but you must be genuine and secure in who you are. You know your own value and appreciate a female who knows her value and will always make you proud to have her by your side..or curled up at your feet.. If you do not have some idea of what this truly is then, unfortunately you are not that man :)
Throw in a moderate desire for pain and excitement for the perverse...what more could you want!.
Because it apparently has to be said...I have no desire for sissy boys. No offense meant by that, we all have preferences :)
I will not consent to anything online aside from friendship and conversation to determine if there is a reason to take it to real life....period.
* I understand that for various reasons, some people do not have profile pics and it isnt that big of a deal. If we decide to continue speaking we will need to Use video to validate each other. If this is not acceptable then unfortunately we cannot move forward.
If you email me demanding submission, pictures or webcam I will not respond. I have respect for myself and I expect anyone in my life to acknowledge that, have respect for themselves and me. If you are already in my life then you know
that once we are cool with each other this statement means nothing :)
Now lets see if there is someone out there
smart enough to see whats really being offered here, its well worth the effort :)
Fakes and scammers beware..I will know, you can count on it. Don't waste my time.
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I hope everyone has had a wonderful weekend :)
It has been a very interesting evening for me...
I received email from a 350lb southern gent who looked as though he hadn't showered or shaved since puberty and wants a really nasty pain slut who is EXTREMELY oral....Yes those were his words..I looked at his profile and pics and as I always do I snagged a pic and did a google image search...As I suspected the image of an enormous quite drool worthy "member" was not the southern gents but a stock photo from a porn site. I copied the google results and pasted them in my response after thanking Mr. southern gent for contacting me. I just do not understand why I have not heard from him again...*grinz* LOL
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Rant time lol
How are you going to email me that I disappeared on you when I am typing a response to you...not once but twice! It's EMAIL and its on THIS SITE so chances are there are going to be delays sometimes..3 minutes is not a delayed response lol It's not like I am sitting in front of this screen staring at your thread waiting for a new EMAIL to hit. Get over your self you pompass jackass :) Lighten up folks...its the internet! |
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well, I have achieved a first! I give up! I absolutely give up... *straight jacket worthy grin*!
I have never willingly given anything up but I have had my lifetime limit of mentally disturbed, poop eating, kid screwing, dog screwing (but they just love it.......) So FIDO has the ability to speak but only when he is telling you how much he lovesss having his butt violated.....right, gotcha. I do not begrudge anyone their own personal twists but seriously..I cant even lol Its like a freak show.
I have had enough of the fakes and liars but I have found that even some who are really who they say they and seem sane soon break out with some crap that is straight out of hell's bowels!!!
I just want one honest, sane, real life man who is close to my age and where I live to chat and meet and just let it be what its going to be :) Is that really asking too much?
Excuse me while I go brush my teeth...the taste of this last week is unbearable LOL |
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I have noticed that just about everyone here is filthy rich, has an amazing job, is extremely well built and healthy. If that is the case, surely they must have women falling at their feet in real life. So why skulk around online hiding behind a screen? Gotta love the internet lol |
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I found out yesterday that I am "Clinically shallow for trawling profiles"...really? First off, I do not trawl for anything on this site or anywhere else and second...how else do you expect to look at the other users if you do not read their profile? At any rate thanks to the pompous ass that enlightened me :) I complimented you on your clever profile and you called me a trawler lol I love this place :) |
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Worth the read :)
http://www.tranarchism.com/2010/12/30/a-field-guide-to-creepy-dom/ |
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It looks like CS had some email issues today. If you messaged me today I was not able to find them. I received email notification but when I log in there are no new emails. It seems to be working again now but none of the days emails are showing...I did not ignore anyone :) |
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Just a free bit of advice...If you message me and I find you interesting, the first thing I am going to do is go read your profile. If there is profile pic I google image search it..Does it really need to be said that if your profile pic is a stock photo for man in 40s that you are misrepresenting yourself and are obviously hiding something...I have no time for it lol
I swear this site is more like a romper room full of meth head twackers every day.. |
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To Miraze12....Lighten up :) I was in the process of replying to your message and got called away for a few minutes..I come back and finish my reply and hit send...Blocked! What are you like 10 years old?? At any rate thank you for Blocking me..it saved me the trouble of having to do it to you. Life is too damned short to be this serious people...This is supposed to be fun lol :) |
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Ive been emailing back and forth for a couple days with this really cool sounding gentleman..not over the top..in fact I can count on both hands the number of messages that have crossed between us. So tonight he demands that I call..I offered to chat off site through another chat program but that wouldn't do. Against my better judgement I called him...yes I know..I'm not too smart sometimes lol We talked for maybe 10 minutes and he blurts out that I have to go somewhere I can be alone...my radar sounded off..I told him I was alone (I wasn't but really, how would he have known lol) Within 60 seconds of me confirming I was alone he demanded that I pull my pants down and masturbate for him...are you fucking kidding me? I politely excused myself and hung up.
What makes someone think they can just demand you do something and expect you to comply..after one 10 min phone conversation..Sorry I'm not that girl..
For the love of all that is kinky...you internet jackasses need to get a clue..grrrr
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My My...not one email yet. Could it be that ya'll actually do read profiles!
My very subby profile had over 40 messages within an hour and a variety of hard task masters barking orders because thats the way you get her to give herself to you..lol
My new profile is me...cut and dry. Not one single message and it has been viewed 46 times. What does that mean I wonder?
It couldn't possibly mean that these barkers are actually scared little puppies yelping for attention but only have the guts to go after the weak because you know they wont fight....no that couldnt possibly be it!
*Seriously...If you have to go through all that screaming and demanding just to be seen then you may want to consider another hobby..or change your orientation to what it really is, just sayin ") |
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