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Lexus: it's the Japanese Mercedes. A lifetime of kinky love, please. (If you get the 'Lexus' quote then I'll probably love you in an instant) Have you ever had an itch you cannot get relief from? I have got an itch. It has been lingering around for years and years, probably just over a decade: an itch named BDSM. Like other sufferers I have made some attempts to obtain relief from this affliction, but sometimes you get that little tickle and the only way to satisfy it is with the help of someone else. I am something of a soloist i.e. I like to spend a fair amount of time alone. This doesn't mean I don't have or cannot make friends, or that I don't value other people (quite the contrary, in fact), or any other negative perception of a solo flyer. It doesn't mean I don't want other people in my life, just that I don't want everyone in my life. Also, it doesn't mean I would want a partner's social life to be inhibited either. What I would like is a lovely, kinky, fun, interesting perverted other whom I can both love and own for a lifetime. Someone who can help satisfy that itch of mine; someone who will entrust me to stimulate and satisfy their desires too. I'm the type of Dom who wants to dictate what you wear rather than one who thrashes into oblivion (although a little spanking is sure to be required). I am particularly fond of girls into rubber and latex; there is not much sexier than a little rubber subbie! I am not looking to rush into anything and casual play is not something I seek. Aside from being a pervert I'm fond of various vanilla interests - although I'm not sure if I'm fond of the term 'vanilla' or not. I like to read and to watch films; I like writing and I have a long held desire to write a novel (something like 'Life of Pi' although clearly it won't be as good); I enjoy comedy, particularly satire and some other things which don't spring to mind right now but will get listed as and when. I am happy to chat with and learn from anyone. I know it's unlikely that collarme will bring two kinky lovers together, but one never knows.